Feminine Energy - Sexual Polarity

[blind_one]

Today me and some people from my company did some charity activities for children from child care homes. After we were done we hopped into our cars and drove back. I rode with 3 female coworkers 1 of which I am good friends with. We were all spent but happy, chatting around bout random pop culture, movies, road rage. After we dropped off 2 of them I was alone with the chick who was a little chubby for my taste when she joined our comp, but in 6 months transformed into a fine piece. We laughed, she was literary crying and I had a great time as well and it left me with a smile for the rest of the day and now as I am writing it.

It was rejuvenating. That positive feminine energy is what I was missing in my life for a couple of months now and it reminded me of the sexual polarity David Deida was talking about in his book.

The Way of the Superior Man : A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida.

I guess its time for me to get back to this book again, which I highly recommend.

Have you had similar experiences ? Thoughts ?

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I tried reading that book and hated it. It was like a book full of fortune cookie quotes.

As for feminine energy, yeah, I like women and the vibe they can bring. I like the way I feel as a man being around women. I do work as the sole man with 12 women so I do have a lot of moments when I am completely over female energy too.

 

[2Rocky]

I found that the absence of that positive female energy was very depressing for me in the latter years of my 20 year marriage. You don't miss it as it is slowly withdrawn over the years. But then, when you meet someone who is positive and encouraging, with a hint of flirtiness and attraction, you realize that it has been missing in your life. Some authors call it "The Love Tank".

It doesn't have to be a lover either. A little over a year ago, on a camping trip with some friends, being asked "Can I make you a sandwich?" struck me profoundly as a huge act of love. I still remember that moment. Having someone who is willing to nurture and encourage gets taken for granted sometimes until you don't have it. That's why Love-bombing works...

Being appreciated for being a man can be addicting. It is easy to fall into the trap of being the hero, the fixer, the friend, the confidante...I'm not sure how we can have our emotional cake and eat it too....

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Love female energy, but too much of anything and I become disengaged. Take it in doses it will be better

 

[Julian]

Yeah I think the reason all these guys turn into supreme gentlemen is straight up lack of positive female energy around aka good puzzy

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

When I seperated from my wife a good female friend ran a bath for me with candles, cider and music. I cried. It had been so long since I had gotten any of that loving energy.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I experience a very similar thing the last couple of years, as I have started to really understand how to act from the masculine. It really does make a difference to be a man than a weak supplicating boy. Showing a woman that you are an will remain strong and centred with her, allows her to be free and vulnerable with you. You will give her attention, but only so much, leaving her craving more. I have fcked it up a couple of times, but I have learned how to be more consistent and how to amend my ways for the next one.

It really is a beautiful thing to behold; a woman who you dig chasing, not in a needy way but a very excited and playful way, hanging on your every word and movement. At this point, life becomes pretty easy.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Yes, female energy is good when you are held in high regard by them.

A great thing about finding one's balance in the SoSuave Academy is that once you understand that the principles espoused here are guidelines and training wheels, and not hard rules, one can relax into enjoying women's company from a non-needy position.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

If you are on good terms with a woman, then this energy will make you feel really good. I believe it is because women do tend to be much more emotional than men and can thus be more energetic too, which makes us FEEL what they feel. The electromagnetic field emitted by your heart and brain are affected by your emotions and other people's emotions as well (especially your heart). So since your heart can detect other people's energy and be affected by it too, this feimine energy you were talking about is especially more impactful on those around then because women FEEL much more than men, and emit this feeling much stronger.

That's the science of it I suppose. Kinda hard to understand but it's a good concept to understand how mindset plays a role.

 

[corrector]

These videos have feminine energy when you mouse click them and press play.
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4) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Szd_59l9qkg

....to name a few. Guess that's what sells their music.