"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Tuareg people are a large Berber ethnic confederation. They principally inhabit the Sahara in a vast area stretching from far southwestern Libya to southern Algeria, Niger, Mali and Burkina Faso. Traditionally nomadic pastoralists, small groups of Tuareg are also found in northern Nigeria. Their religion is islam.



In this tribe man cover and never show their faces. It is considered great insult to uncover man's face, and murder will be result of such action. In Tuareg culture women are allowed to sleep with several partners before age 18. Woman picks a man and brings him home for sex, she is suppose to keep it secret and man must leave before the break of dawn. Everyone else suppose to pretend they did not notice anything. As girls, now women, turn 18, they get to pick their husband. Throughout marriage Tuareg woman can divorce at any time for any reason, if for example man doesn't fcks her well enough, or does not make enough money, or she find another man. At that, woman gets to keep everything!


 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The ultimate goal of feminist.

They should be inspired by this story.
 
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