Females Love to set Traps!!!!

[JJ0004]

Why do females want to set a trap on dudes all the time? In other words when they say they want you to be her man and I reply by saying "Lets chill and see what happens." Then they test you by ignoring you for days even weeks to see if you miss them.

I know most of you guys have gone through this and some of you probably texted or called a few times(2 max). Then you stop trying.

From your experience out of all the girls that flaked on you, how many actually responded back to you and how long did they take to reply back after they put the silent treatment on you????

 

[LostAndConfused]

I don't really know about the other parts but whenever a girl flakes on me I just tell her "Your loss" and say nothing more to her, unless she tries to pursue me again.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

How the hell do you know it's a trap if she is giving you the silent treatment?

Mine gave me the silent treatment and last time I called the phone was off. I gave up and deleted her #.

Silent treatment or not interested?

Not interested in my book, accept it!

 

[LostAndConfused]

Not so much "not interested" more "missing out on a great opportunity"

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I don't see how any woman who really wants you gives the silent treatment. The truth is we are probably just an option and she wants someone else.

Let's ask Francisco if he ever got the silent treatment. Francisco?

 

[reset]

I gave up and deleted her #.

This is effective time-management. You have just freed up your future time to spend doing things you enjoy and/or with women who have high interest in you.

 

[JJ0004]

I believe its a trap because when we went out, she wanted me to say that I like her and I told her that I thought you was cool. Then she text me that same night saying "maybe I should stop texting you since I'm not your girl". Then 4 days later she stopped.

So I'm thinking she wants me to tell her that I like her and we should have a relationship. But I'm not buying into her schemes. I work on my terms which is chill and hangout first to see if she's worth it period.

 

[reset]

Francisco?

(pretending to be Francisco for just a moment, hope he doesn't mind)

"How can I get the silent treatment when I've already moved on and am with someone else?"

 

[LostAndConfused]

I believe its a trap because when we went out, she wanted me to say that I like her and I told her that I thought you was cool. Then she text me that same night saying "maybe I should stop texting you since I'm not your girl". Then 4 days later she stopped.

So I'm thinking she wants me to tell her that I like her and we should have a relationship. But I'm not buying into her schemes. I work on my terms which is chill and hangout first to see if she's worth it period.

I'm thinking you took too long to escalate. I've made the same mistake recently.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

(pretending to be Francisco for just a moment, hope he doesn't mind)

"How can I get the silent treatment when I've already moved on and am with someone else?"

I LOL'd I really did.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I believe its a trap because when we went out, she wanted me to say that I like her and I told her that I thought you was cool. Then she text me that same night saying "maybe I should stop texting you since I'm not your girl". Then 4 days later she stopped.

So I'm thinking she wants me to tell her that I like her and we should have a relationship. But I'm not buying into her schemes. I work on my terms which is chill and hangout first to see if she's worth it period.

LOL, and my girl wanted me to say I miss her so I did and I told her "I don't want you to go away".

And what did she do? WENT AWAY.

To quote Tupac "they wonder why we call them b!tch!"

 

[dopexile]

This is just a bad thread... beauty is in the eye of the beholder... looks are subjective. Some people might find russian girls ugly, and some AFCs pick up fat cows and think they struck gold. There's no way to prove russian girls are hot... just find what you enjoy and go for it

 

[My Name is Nobody]

This is just a bad thread... beauty is in the eye of the beholder... looks are subjective. Some people might find russian girls ugly, and some AFCs pick up fat cows and think they struck gold. There's no way to prove russian girls are hot... just find what you enjoy and go for it

I think you have the wrong thread.

As for this thread, I'm to the point where as soon as a woman I'm seeing or chasing shows disrespect, show her the door for GOOD! It's the only way to stop wasting precious time and emotions.

For example, this b!tch stood me up tonight. Then when I called her out on it she tried to say she "forgot" to tell me she couldn't make it.

Then she asks me "how can she make it up to me"

I told her "no thanks, I'm good"

She got P!SSED at ME and said "Fine! your loss! goodbye!"

W T F


I am proud that I didn't suck up to her like every other guy she probably knows.

PS. Alright, so I made a mistake and told some fat b!tch who knows her that I want to hook up with her. I have known the woman who stood me up for awhile, used to work with her. And we were just friends.

And the fat b!tch probably let her know my intentions. So what?
Does that give her the right to stand me up? Like she didn't already know my intentions. Especially after I told her to come over. Give me a break.

I am never going to understand these people.

 

[ketostix]

(pretending to be Francisco for just a moment, hope he doesn't mind)

"How can I get the silent treatment when I've already moved on and am with someone else?"

LOL, that does sound like Franciso. He likes to answer a question with a question. That's cool though.

In response to the OP, sometimes it is a test or a trap or a game to manipulate you, but test or not it's a bad sign and the best response is the same-give her the silent treatment right back and don't give in to what she's asking for.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Women waste time more than any other species on this planet. If you left them alone in the wilderness they'd all die from their stupid b1tching and moaning and games.

 

[ketostix]

Women waste time more than any other species on this planet. If you left them alone in the wilderness they'd all die from their stupid b1tching and moaning and games.

Bravo. In actuality though I think a lot of them would but it's also a symptom of having it too good. IF things got rough, women would change their attitude quickly.

 

[dopexile]

Yeah I posted in the wrong thread... how silly of me

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I don't see how any woman who really wants you gives the silent treatment. The truth is we are probably just an option and she wants someone else.

Let's ask Francisco if he ever got the silent treatment. Francisco?

You're right, a woman who's truly interested in you will not give you the silent treatment unless she's your wife (completely different situation). Even if a woman is mad at you, she's going to let you know under no uncertain terms if she's has a high interest level (i.e. an high emotional investment).

As for the trap setting, I haven't experienced that; I have little interest in female games which are typically played by people who are immature. This is different from sh1t test though, I don't blame women for giving those with the abundance of AFCs that are around. Besides, it's a really good way to differentiate yourself from over half the guys out there.

There real problem here is when guys are willing to put up with what they perceive as traps and other general acts of perpetual disrespect. The first time or two is permissible just to determine the woman's mindset and to let her know your rules. After that it's up to her to decide whether or not she believes it's worth her while to adjust.

The thing is that it's the same for the guy too. He doesn't have to continue to play but often he chooses to, again and again with the same outcome. Thus the purpose of threads of frustration like this one. Guys who do a good job of qualifying may come across these women but seldom invest tons of time and needless effort in them.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

(pretending to be Francisco for just a moment, hope he doesn't mind)

"How can I get the silent treatment when I've already moved on and am with someone else?"

Oh that was good....

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Walking away is effective but she loses you. What´s the point if she pushes you hard enough if it reaches this stage (The guy leaving)??