You gotta be a DJ about it kk2004... If at any point you feel you are being lied to, next em. You will know when you find your 'jackpot' woman because she will be different, and make you feel different. But this is a mentality a man must take on if he wants to find a 'wife' type material. It almost overshadows the DJ mentality. This is also how we get our hearts broken. BE CAREFUL if you choose this path. Allowing acceptance of a true women to overshadow your DJ mentality is of course dangerous because some girls can act VERY WELL as true women when indeed they are not. Also dont get me wrong when I say 'allow it to overshadow your DJ mentality.' I always act DJ, I put my foot down, I let a women know her place in a relationship, I say what's what. But I work it in so she accepts it. Usually it is very hard for a non 'true women' to accept all this, so it is like our test to them I guess. What I mean is, you still have to be DJ, just not to any other girls but that one. I dont know if this helps, but I will share my example to show how hard I think it is to find a women of this stature... Of course the higher your expectations, the harder it will be to find one because the hotter the b!tch, the more likely she is to be a slvt... My fiance, was an HB9 and was perfect in every way. She was obsessed in love with me, and would have never hurt me in any way. I lost her from goin down the wrong path (drugs and cheating). Okay so then I found this site and took on the correct mentality (DJ). That was 6 months ago... Since then I have fvcked 21 different girls and only one was a true women... My current girlfriend. So I was lucky enough to find another one. She is an HB9 so I got lucky again. So thats 1 in every 21 on average for me so far. I keep braggin this up so I should probably post some pics... which I will do tomarrow if I can remember. Also I have met chicks all kinds of ways, but the one way I found to meet women who are tired of playin the game and want LTRs guys is on the net. Not from chatting because they are mostly slvts, but from this website:
www.webdate.com
That is where I met my current girlfriend and beleive me there are some hot chicks on that site this I promise you. Through reading profiles of women on this website I have found that they think we play all sorts of games and are tired of it. They want what some of us want, a real relationship, no lies or games. Everyone should check this out because you can read about what girls want. It is kinda cool. And obviously you can meet people from everywhere and it is totally free. Sorry if you think I am promoting it because I am not meaning too... It is an interesting site and you should all check it out. Sorry this post was so long too... My bad. And lastly sorry about the subject switch... My bad again. I will post pictures of me and my girl for anyone who cares tomarrow on this thread. Im out...