"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MrGold

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Quick history --->
went out for 2years, broke up 2years ago.

She tries to get back with me after she found out her rebound (yes she admitted it) was a manipulative freak (HA!), which occurred around last year December..

I basically tell her to F off because im amazing :cool:

I havent spoken to her in around a year.

Present situation --->

The other week i get a text message sayin 'Fvk u' at 3am from an unrecognised number. Called the number back and apparently it was a mistake (BS :nono: ), i didnt recognise the recipient either.

So today I thought (being playful me :whistle:) I would prank call this number again and see what happens... Lo and behold, the ex picks up and thinks its some other retard pranking her. I hang the mofo up and ring back a sec later just to make sure my sense of voice recognition isnt playing a sick trick on me. It was her :down:

Chances are im gonna run into her sooner or later.. How would you react to this situation and what would you do had you bumped into her?

Additional info - Ive turned hot since she last saw me... :cool:

Please ask if any more details are required! :D

Thanks in advance, Gold.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shortie

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Ignore that text and dont think about it. if you really have to think about it, it should give you an idea that she is still sulking over you to some extent. she wouldnt have texted that to you.

if you run into her, honestly do what this blog tells you. say hi, if she escalates the conversation, keep it short and simple. dont stay longer than you have to. tell her you have to be somewhere and you are running late, it was good to see her and goodbye.

DO NOT bring up the text mesg, do not bring up your relationship with her. big no no's in my opinion. i have done that it gives them power over you and makes em feel like you are hung up on those things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gangster Of Love

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So this makes the female gender "retarded"? Do females all share that specific behavior in common? There's gotta be better examples of things women do in general, that makes them "retarded".

You haven't moved on, apparently. You will know you have when you no longer concern yourself with getting payback, proving you are better than her and her ex, etc. When it no longer matters, you know you will have risen above all of that. For now, I suggest you remain indifferent and find one that is smart enought to value the "new" you.

Looks like you fell and got played by a "retarded" bird, and can't let it go. Now, if you keep at it and wasting your time thinking about this looser. who is the "retarded" one?
 

MrGold

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Lol, I'm not after revenge, im actually after a logical explanation if anything.. If i wanted payback i think that would have been a little too easy with possession of her number.

Sooo ur advice is ignore her like i have been for the past coupla years?
 

Remy

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Id say to keep ignoring her

Though the fact that you even made this thread in the first place kindof serves as evidence that you aren't really over her.. because if you were, you woulda just ignored the text and not even bothered asking for outside advice.

But yea, if thats way off then I apolgize, but no contact seems to be the best solution here :)
 

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lol, it took this chick two years to pick up the phone and prank you lol

You sure she is not wanting a piece of you?
 

DonGorgon

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yeh yeh women are retarded but ... we need and want to F them and to get to their wonderful PU$$Y we must first deal with their crazy brains...lol So you better start figuring out ways to do it or you will be spending alot of money to F..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanit0

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Call the number from your cell while you two talk about random staff! :p
Maybe she ment she sent that message by mistake to you? and not that she was someone you didn't know?
 

Veridin

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Gangster Of Love said:
So this makes the female gender "retarded"? Do females all share that specific behavior in common?
Exactly what I was thinking.


MrGold said:
I basically tell her to F off because im amazing :cool:
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Additional info - Ive turned hot since she last saw me... :cool:
Good to hear that you are amazing and hot. But this all sounds a bit weird.
 
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