"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i have to admit, though...i would feel funny about having sex with a virgin unless i really wanted a relationship with her...reason being is it seems ok randomly sexing a chick who has been around or who has experience...virgin though... that is just too serious sounding...if you are a stunner though and were a great girl then that would be a different story..if not then i am sure my mind would change after a few stiff drinks....seriously, some single guy should try and help her out if it's not a troll...we need some pics...just blur your face so at least posters can see if you are fit or not and then maybe you could send a pic privately...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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samsie1 said:
I dont need a relationship but yeah I dont want it to be someone random. Someone I trust and feel comfortable with...yes.
If you are a real female, you're in California, and attraction is mutual, heck, I'll pop your cherry. Let's exchange numbers over a "personal message" on here and take it from there in terms of exchanging pictures, etc. Gotta confirm you aren't a troll first, though; I'm not getting my kidneys stolen lol
 

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I will look into the dildo thing but my gynocologist said that isnt the best way to break it and really a man's penis is the best way but I dunno
You'll fall in love with that bad boy.
 

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this is ****ing awesomely funny. The OP is either over 200 pounds, ugly, trailer trash, or gspsheilds. So in other words.... 24 , meh your a little old for me but fvck it come over babe ill do what Atom couldn't ;)
 

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sexyfaceme said:
Comeon! if out of so many DJs all around the world cannot help her its a shame.

Dont know what gives people permission to be mean on the internet.

Dont help her but atleast dont attack.
Troll Meter:

Normal.................Caution......TROLL
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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samsie1 said:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=33279665

My POF profile. That I dont use.

Assuming by troll you mean someone fake. Yes I am a 24 year old non-fat girl
Lol yeah right that's you.

I slept with an 18-yr old once. When my d!ck was inside her she said, by the way I'm a virgin. I shrugged and pounded her brains out. The next day she got a cab home and I never talked to her again. I honestly would have called her again if she just kept her mouth shut and didn't tell me. OP if you want a guy to care just don't say anything.
 

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Your cute...I would f*ck you and be nice to you if I didn't have a girlfriend.
 

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This is more common than you'd think for educated girls with closed social circles who won't do the bar/club thing.

If you have money and look good, join a climbing gym and climb with a partner you like, or do a 3-week vacation at a surf camp or something. If you don't have money, get a job at a hostel or anywhere fun with high staff and/or visitor turnover. If you can't get laid in that environment something else is going on.

Don't tell anyone you're a virgin either, any decent guy will understand later you are shy and maybe ashamed, maybe it is manipulative but you should probably get this behind you. There are a lot of social skills linked up with sexuality; learning how to navigate sexuality will make your life better.

If it's more like nobody can fit your criteria, you will need a therapist, not a boyfriend. Good luck and happy hunting
 

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wait_out said:
This is more common than you'd think for educated girls with closed social circles who won't do the bar/club thing.
Slightly more common then elves, fairies and unicorns.

wait_out said:
If you have money and look good, join a climbing gym and climb with a partner you like, or do a 3-week vacation at a surf camp or something. If you don't have money, get a job at a hostel or anywhere fun with high staff and/or visitor turnover. If you can't get laid in that environment something else is going on.

Don't tell anyone you're a virgin either, any decent guy will understand later you are shy and maybe ashamed, maybe it is manipulative but you should probably get this behind you. There are a lot of social skills linked up with sexuality; learning how to navigate sexuality will make your life better.

If it's more like nobody can fit your criteria, you will need a therapist, not a boyfriend. Good luck and happy hunting
It's obviously a troll dude. I totally forgot this thread even existed. I think its about time people let this die out.

Virginity is so rare and in such a high demand these days that any half attractive female can literally offer it to the highest bidder. Highest bidder as in hundreds of thousands or even millions. Then again if I remember correctly she said she messed around with several other guys so I wouldn't go as far as to consider it a true virgin either. The hypocrisy in some people who think they can do anything and everything but vaginal penetration and still consider "saving" themselves is just laughable.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Im pretty sure a guy is going to figure out Im a virgin when he tries to stick it in me and it doesnt happen super easily. I am a virgin technically but yes, I have done other stuff so I guess I am an experienced virgin. I dont have issues with a guy trying to get physical with me but the ones that tried to take it all the way got turned off when I told them.

Theres a possibility one of my old guy friends will have sex with me. I talked to him last night and he seemed up for it but I wont be able to see him for a month. If that doesnt work out or he flakes on me...for now on I wont tell a guy and will hope for the best.

I dont give a crap if you all think Im fake I know other attractive girls that are virgins as well because they are late bloomers like me or are religious. I just wanted advice because females arent good to ask about this. You all reiterated I should lie so for now on I will
 
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Samuel,

You NEED to mention that you are a virgin in your POF profile or these self-righteous men on the site won't even message you.
 

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samsie1 said:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=33279665

My POF profile. That I dont use.

Assuming by troll you mean someone fake. Yes I am a 24 year old non-fat girl
seriously?????? :confused:

why don't you just get into a real relationship?? i'm in the extreme minority on here but i think sex is better that way. i really don't know why it hasn't happened for you yet...all women have to do is leave the house basically!!
 

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yyc12 said:
seriously?????? :confused:

why don't you just get into a real relationship?? i'm in the extreme minority on here but i think sex is better that way. i really don't know why it hasn't happened for you yet...all women have to do is leave the house basically!!
Im too scared Ill be a virgin still in several years if I do that. There arent too many guys in their 20's that are genuinely nice with good character and I dont want my first relationship to be crappy. It seems silly to be like "oh I wanna lose my virginity to you so Ill get in a relationship when its prob not going to work anyway" Id just rather lose it to someone Ive been dating
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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^^alternatively, if you fancy a trip to England I would be more than happy to "date" you for an evening ;-)
 

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She got enough chances already; I diagnose her with AW Syndrome. End of this nonsense thread**

-R
 

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Look, sam, you gotta understand our point of view. You are a good looking girl that's complaining of not being able to get laid. To us guys that's like being piss broke and hearing about your millionaire friend complaining that he can't find a way to spend his money. Would YOU feel bad for him?

Seriously, girlfriend, glamour up some dude for a week or so and get the job done, it isn't that hard. Pick a somewhat humdrum guy that'll go easy on ya. Get rid of him in another week or so. Ice pack-up your cooch and voila!

If there is some other psychological attribute to you not being able to jump this hurdle, by all means get help. Other than that you are not going to get any mind blowing advice from a bunch of guys on a site that have been burned by women the majority of their lives. Do excuse the frankness, but we don't sugar coat things here.

Good luck to ya.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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