"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Female version of SS/DJ site

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Any one know of a site geared towards females like this? theres tons of good info on here that i figured if female stumbles accross this site she would gain tons of info about how males think. So figured if theres a female version of dj site out there maybe worth reading some too. Also I'm surprised that there is no females or hardly any female responding on this site, any one kno the reason for that?
thanks for any help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Most men don't think like this. A women reading this site would not get in site into how the average man thinks. She would however learn a bit about herself and what pushes her buttons.
 

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nano-tank said:
Any one know of a site geared towards females like this? theres tons of good info on here that i figured if female stumbles accross this site she would gain tons of info about how males think. So figured if theres a female version of dj site out there maybe worth reading some too. Also I'm surprised that there is no females or hardly any female responding on this site, any one kno the reason for that?
thanks for any help.
I doubt you will ever find a female self improvement forum. Why? Women generally don't want to change either form society's pressure of "people should love you for you!" Or her just having a massive ego. Remember, men are here because we function logically, women on the other hand not so much... For men, when something is broken, we tend to fix whatever needs fixing. Women will try but then give up after a few attempts if not the first. Of course there is always the blame game that is universal and very common, it's not their fault that their crappy right?

Supply and demand. Females don't need to change, whether crappy or not, in order to gain male attention. Men on the other hand... Proper female respect on first glance will cost you about $60k. Which actually isn't a lot to some people who have careers.
 

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nano-tank said:
Any one know of a site geared towards females like this? theres tons of good info on here that i figured if female stumbles accross this site she would gain tons of info about how males think. So figured if theres a female version of dj site out there maybe worth reading some too. Also I'm surprised that there is no females or hardly any female responding on this site, any one kno the reason for that?
thanks for any help.
Women are not smart or logical enough to have a site like this. They operate on a combination of emotion and trying to mimick the 'career girl' charactecure they think they are
 

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Women are not smart or logical enough to have a site like this. They operate on a combination of emotion and trying to mimick the 'career girl' charactecure they think they are
I literally lol'ed !!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nano-tank said:
Any one know of a site geared towards females like this? theres tons of good info on here that i figured if female stumbles accross this site she would gain tons of info about how males think.
All that women take away from sites like this are "OMG guys really do only care about sex." They never grasp the nuances, because they can't. Women can't fathom what it's like to have a male sex drive. It's simply impossible. Just as men can never understand what it's like for sex to be so easily obtainable that it's downright boring.

Frayzer said:
I doubt you will ever find a female self improvement forum. Why? Women generally don't want to change either form society's pressure of "people should love you for you!" Or her just having a massive ego. Remember, men are here because we function logically, women on the other hand not so much...
Please, you're way too young to be mindlessly parroting the manosphere's inane tripe. Practically every woman's magazine, web site, TV show, etc. is all about how they can make themselves more beautiful. That's womens' "self-improvement" because they know that that's 90% of what matters to men. Women are constantly obsessed with making themselves more attractive.

C'mon, you're a teenager. Read more, opine less.
 
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