female uber pax wanted to take me to bed

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

wifehunter

Master Don Juan

Oct 30, 2016

So I show up at the pickup point, and immediatly hit it off with two polish ladies. Banter, sarcasm...what I do best.
Then the one with elvira/pirate/dead chick costume asks me if I like her makeup. I laugh in a funny, suprising, sarcastic way, then say "it's charming" in a joking yet slighly sarcastic way...then she asks if I want to go to bed with her!!! I laugh suprisingly, and say "Thanks, I'm flattered, I'll take that as a compliment."

This attraction business is way too fun. And, no I didn't take her to bed. I think she was prepping a frame test for her possible boyfriend that showed up moments later.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.