"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Female Stalkers: What can we learn?

CherryBreaker

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I've had a couple of female stalkers in the past. You know, constant calling, love notes, and everything else that would label her a stalker. And how did it start for me? Jealousy. When you've dated but then decided to move on to someone else and the stalker girl witnessed it.

I guess jealousy is one of the strong techniques to get a girl eating out of the palm of your hand. It's happening again with this girl I dated for a month just over a year ago. She saw me at a club on the weekend dancing to a slow song with a girl I'm dating presently. Man she was in tears and was looking at me like she finally realized what she's lost.

If you'll like a typical nice guy/wuss, you wouldn't use this technique but for a jerk like me, it's powerful and I plan on using it with the girl I'm with just to keep her on her toes.

What's your technique for getting a girl to become a stalker so that we'll can all cut to the chase and not have to deal with body language reading, neg hits, C+F, etc. which is I use at the beginning but to finally close the deal and have the girl fall madly in love with you.

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thefonz

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i have no stories like that.....
 

diablo

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I dated 3 different girls who lived in the same house (at different times; 5 girls total shared the rent on the house). Throughout it, and even after the last of the 3 and I went our seperate ways, my car windshield kept getting smashed. Once with a brick, another time by a beer bottle, lastly with a baseball bat. Lots of B-words. I learned not to date girls who live together...
 

SELF-MASTERY

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I had a chick who wouldnt stop callin', broke my car window, and left me with a flat tire.
 

CherryBreaker

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I was looking at what you did to make those chicks behave like that so that we can apply it when the time is right to really have a check fall in love. Or modify it a little so that the won't be stalkers but more dedicated to you.

I think these techniques would be the final blow into having a HB fall madly in love with you so we wouldn't have to go through the confusion of playing their games. The ball would be totally in our court.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DeathDealer

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Yeah I got like one or two female stalkers who call me OUT of the blue, flirt with me, bring up the wonderful past (despite the bad after taste before I got dumped.) - They always seem to call you when you are hooking up with a new chick.. and they tell you they are open for dating and such.

Girls become psychopathic if you dump them or rub them the wrong way. I usually just keep in contact and then let it fade instead of abruptly cutting off all contact.

The thing about leaving a "loser" is to whine and be afc to them. Tell them how pathetic you are at work, school, and how you hate yourself to her.
 
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