"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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female sexual predators?

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Lately I've become way more confident and successful with women blahblah, but I was just sitting here thinking about a particular girl who was extremely interested in me and did pretty much ALL of the DJ things to do ... to me because it was very apparent to her that i was an AFC.

Seriously this girl initiated kino like a pro. (making an excuse to feel my hands because she said they looked 'soft' then neg hitting me a bit because she said guys are supposed to have rough hands and it didnt seem like i used them for anything).

She talked about sex constantly and made hints that she wanted to bang me. (I really didn't want to since she had kind of a large reputation for being slutty plus i was a whimp back then lol).

After i didn't seem interested enough, she nexted me ....

Now, at the time all of this was beyond my poor little ignorant head, but looking back ... holy **** female DJ's really do exisit. Some girls apparently get off by seducing shy men i guess.

Just thought it would be an interesting thought / story to share with y'all.

Laterrrr, i gotta get ready for a date :D .
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some girls apparently get off by seducing shy men i guess.
Key word mentioned in your post, "slutty." Hell, it's happened to me, and I didn't follow through for the same reasons you didn't.
 

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"Female Sexual Predators" ??:rolleyes:

Sounds like another bullsh!t modern word coined by feminism if you ask me.
And "female DJ's"?? ..Hardly. The actions of the b!tch you describe are pretty much stock standard inherent behaviour which 99.9% of all chicks acquire around puberty. Her actions were nothing out of the ordinary. There is no "learning the game" needed for chicks of how you perceive it.
 

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I don't call 'em that, I call 'em free-lays, sure you don't wanna have 'em all the time, but they're fine for helping build confidence, and helping calm and cure insecurities. God bless the F*ck n' Chuck's.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Those kinda girls got more probs than you can count on all your fingers. Like Big-J has said, they're pretty much Fck-N-Chucks.
 

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you really think all chicks have natural game ?

Could've f-ucking fooled me haha.

Yah i ran into this particular girl a couple years out of highschool.... she got knocked up, rather glad i never got involved.

...and chill with the title of the post, doesn't change the context and plus its a badass fightclub reference (f-ucking love that movie).
 
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