"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Female Power Switch Backfires on her!!!!

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Quick story guys:

When a chic pursues you for weeks, its a good thing. SO u go out on a 1st date, then she sets up the second date two days later (watch out for that). Then she flakes on you thru texting when I asked "So where are we meeting up" She says "SOrry I can't meet up with you today" lol.Ok guys I know I messed up here but here is how I switched it. I text back by saying " ok playa playa" She tried to get a rise out of me trying to have me wrapped around her finger.

But check this out, this is where she really set herself up, I guess she figured its time to put the Ultimate sh1t test on me by not texting, or checking up on me. So what do I do?? I do nothing. Then two weeks later she text me back with lame excuses and try to make me look like the bad guy plus she was checking to see if I was good.

What I'm saying is that if u kno u screwed up a little, you can get it back smoothly if you are on your toes and can see what can happen down the line because I anticipated the stop texting and calls.


Now she was mad a hell for weeks wondering why I didnt chase her down like most guys would do, u kno the calling everyday, texting 3-5 times a day looking for her. SO in other words I bruised her ego and feelings because she thought she had me feeling her hard. Now she is wondering if I even cared for her. WATCH OUT FOR THESE TRAPS BECAUSE SOME CHICS CAN START OUT SMALL FIRST BEFORE THEY GO TO THERE BIG BAG OF TRICKS.

Now when I talk to her I will put her in her place calm and smoothly by calling her out on her sh1t. BUT REMEMBER STAY CONSISTENT FROM THE START BECAUSE GIRLS REMEMBER YOUR ACTION IN THE BEGINNING.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This girl has a low to moderate interest level in you. If not she would not have flaked on you in the first place. Do you think she would flake on a celebrity? Didn't think so. You might have upped the interest level a bit by not being an AFC chump and calling but this relationship may not hold up.

I have noticed that girls with high interest level will make the relationship easy and enjoyable. What she did was make it difficult. Look out this one will probably turn out to be a rotten apple.
 

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lookyoung said:
You might have upped the interest level a bit by not being an AFC chump and calling but this relationship may not hold up.
Its not a relationship even though she wanted one. That is why I always take my time to read these broads. I do think she did have high IL in me until I made a little mistake of wanting to see her two days later and asking for it first. Thats when she thought she had me and wanted to see how much I really care for her. In other words she wanted control from the start cuz she was the aggressor.
 

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I think you are giving too much credit to some girl who has a low to mild interest in you.

1) she made an excuse not to see you.

2) she didn't want to text or call you anymore because frankly she doesn't care (not because she is giving you a sh1t test).

3) your attempt of push-pull theory is not going to make her go hot for you all of the sudden. You have to have more game then that to keep a girl interested.
 

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TruthTeller said:
I do think she did have high IL in me until I made a little mistake of wanting to see her two days later and asking for it first.
Wrong if she had a high interest level she would have called you right away. You could have probably seen her the next day if you wanted to. Do you think a girl with high interest level will turn into low interest just because you wanted to see her 2 days later? If the girl had the hots for you, she would not have played this game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJDamage said:
I think you are giving too much credit to some girl who has a low to mild interest in you.
1) she made an excuse not to see you.

2) she didn't want to text or call you anymore because frankly she doesn't care (not because she is giving you a sh1t test).
She texted me two week later trying to make me look like the bad guy. Her text clearly showed she was hurt. Read the whole story.
 
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