"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know a girl who is really a player.She's going for the hotest boys, but none of them can bang her.She just seduce them and after that play with their heart.

What you should do with this kind of woman ? She is very experienced, because she is like a social butterfly, and always searching for new, fresh, and beautiful stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I tell her to get lost.


You dont want a women who f*cks with your heart.
 

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realise what she doing and what she's about.

She likes to play the game - she likes toying with the boys.

What's the best way to combat this? Not playing her game.

You should always seem to be dis-interested in her.

Be aloof when around her. Never do her 'favors' - don't compete for her attention. Make her work for yours.

it's a fine line.
 

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NewMan said:
realise what she doing and what she's about.

She likes to play the game - she likes toying with the boys.

What's the best way to combat this? Not playing her game.

You should always seem to be dis-interested in her.

Be aloof when around her. Never do her 'favors' - don't compete for her attention. Make her work for yours.

it's a fine line.
I can tell your a pro!

Listen to the man Mitza.
 

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if you are a good player, you can win the game...you get what im saying..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The problem on this forum, is that the question of "how to fvck" is answered, but "how to fvck all the time" isn't.

Market strategy, STOP sarging chicks who have enough dycks to worry about. Sarge quality, bored chicks......and you know where I am going with this....yes, do it on Myspace!!

- John Tucker
 
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Who gives a sh1t!!

WHy the **** are you even making such a big deal out of one girl--there's at least a couple more in the world.
 
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There is no such thing as a "female player" -- that is a oxymoron!!! They are rightfully called hors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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You dont want a women who f*cks with your heart.
When I like something I really want to have.I have kisses untill now.

realise what she doing and what she's about.

She likes to play the game - she likes toying with the boys.

What's the best way to combat this? Not playing her game.

You should always seem to be dis-interested in her.

Be aloof when around her. Never do her 'favors' - don't compete for her attention. Make her work for yours.

it's a fine line.
I've tryed that, but as I've said she is a social butterfly, she can imediatly pass trough this, because always will be with someone ... is a social magnet.

Market strategy, STOP sarging chicks who have enough dycks to worry about. Sarge quality, bored chicks......and you know where I am going with this....yes, do it on Myspace!!
There is no challange.

There is no such thing as a "female player" -- that is a oxymoron!!! They are rightfully called hors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Everybody thinks about this girl that she is a HORE, but she is a virgin.
 

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Mitza said:
Everybody thinks about this girl that she is a HORE, but she is a virgin.
So basically shes a tease who feels empowered by manipulating guys...red flag.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It sucks how the first girl I ever dated WAS a serial dater(female player) although she claims she wasnt:box: . I did see a common pattern in the guys she dated after me. They were good looking and drove a decent to NICE ride(one was a motorcycle), a jerk with both or basically a "trophy boy"(one of those guys that she can show off to her friends like "look what I picked up!"). What sucks is she was one of those very decieving serial daters because she gave off the image and vibe of that of a nice naive shy girl(solid HB 8) that brought my guard and other guys guards down...I agree, girls like those are damaged goods and can only be what I call "fcuk em and leave em" status. I personally like to hunt bi-atches like these down and bring them down with their own game...keep away from bi-atches like these or if your like me, make sure you fcuked them over before they do it to you...
 

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Mitza said:
I know a girl who is really a player.She's going for the hotest boys, but none of them can bang her.She just seduce them and after that play with their heart.

What you should do with this kind of woman ? She is very experienced, because she is like a social butterfly, and always searching for new, fresh, and beautiful stuff.
I would see her as a challenge.....Play her.....Find her soft spot and push it...

If you fail.....

Shoot her in the face with a double barrelled shotgun and a load of blokes a favour.


Sarge On!
 

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They were good looking and drove a decent to NICE ride(one was a motorcycle), a jerk with both or basically a "trophy boy"(one of those guys that she can show off to her friends like "look what I picked up!"). What sucks is she was one of those very decieving serial daters because she gave off the image and vibe of that of a nice naive shy girl(solid HB 8) that brought my guard and other guys guards down...I agree, girls like those are damaged goods and can only be what I call "fcuk em and leave em" status.
You described very well my girl ... in special when you said about "look what I picked up!", and "trophy boys".

But please advice me .. how to make a girl like this to stay with you.How to kneal her ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mitza said:
You described very well my girl ... in special when you said about "look what I picked up!", and "trophy boys".

But please advice me .. how to make a girl like this to stay with you.How to kneal her ?
I think in situations like these, the roles are reversed. Its like shes the jerk/player and the nice guy(assuming he's nice or a straight up AFC) wants to tame her.

From what Ive experienced, chicks like these should only be seen as **** only material. Lets say that you did end up becoming exclusive with a damn serial dater...a SERIAL DATER! How long do you think it would last? Think about it.
 

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:down: Women aren't really good at the game they have the ability to get pregnant and be tied down through the kids.

They can never really beat us in that game.

But whatever if she's a player why do you wanna mess with her?
 

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Mitza said:
You described very well my girl ... in special when you said about "look what I picked up!", and "trophy boys".

But please advice me .. how to make a girl like this to stay with you.How to kneal her ?
You just lost the game as far as I know. The desire to want to tame such a girl is the main thing that gives a girl like this that kind of power. I'm not sayin you cant fvck her. But I doubt you'll just tame her like that. If you just wanna fvck then I say be direct when ever you get to be alone with her.
And I mean in a physical way and try to fvck. She starts bull****in, then let her know that you want to deal with a real woman thats about real ****. And tell her to find another sucker to play with. Otherwise I say dont waste your time.:D
 

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I think the main problem here is that you got attached to this breezy already which is understandable. Serial daters(especially if they have good looks) make the game easy for you in the beginning so that you establish feelings for her quickly. She'll make it seem like shes 90%-100% interested. But as soon as she finds this out, thats when they bust the push and pull method on you except what they do is they completely pull away...these chicks are don juanitas...they gotta be used and JUST used.
 
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