"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Female Online Dating Profiles

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Anyone see the dissection someone did a while back that broke down all the things in a chick's dating profile either from craigslist or match or something?

He had stuff like "I want to travel" and explained how that was her version of screening for a guy with money, and things along those lines. It also went into how "a few extra curves" means she's a fatbody and all those sort of equivalencies and what to watch out for. It really picked the girl's profile apart.

I thought this was it, but it's not.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=108317
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks. #8 is the one I was looking about wrt travel.
 
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