female mentality - mid 20's

[MacAvoy]

At what age do you think women start getting on the I want to get married and have a family boat. I realize it probably happens a little sooner for women than men.

My g/f has mentioned the "m" word several times, more less saying that I better be open to the option and not just playing games. She also talked about gettin her yearly pap and breast exam and asked if I ever get tested. I told her yea usually every other year but that I was due.

She replied that this better be my last one. Indicating that I wouldn't need to get any more tests cuz I would only be w/ her. She is madly in love w/ me but she is only 25.

You think a women is ready at that age to make that commitment?

 

[speedo_meme]

Opinions on this vary. Some people will say no and flame you for thinking about it, some will say yes. It's whatever you want, man. As long as you hold the power in the relationship and you are happy and that is definitely what you want, relationships are good.

IMO, women will marry the first person that stays with them long enough and keeps her attraction, whether they're 18 or 45. Some are higher maintenance to keep her attraction than others. The reason women are waiting longer to marry is because the feminist movement is teaching them to be independent and teaching men to be dependent, or as well call it, AFC. It's simple trends.

More AFC men + more independent women = less lasting relationships...

because...as we all know

women don't want to fukk a dependent male...

 

[Desdinova]

It all depends on what you're looking for. She's obviously looking for marriage. If you're not, I'd suggest you cut her loose and let her go after what she wants.

Many women who have never been married by their mid-20s will start looking for a marriage mate. They know their 30s are approaching, their looks are going to go downhill soon, and they start hearing the ticking of the biological clock.

The women who are focussed on their careers are too busy to think about this stuff. They'll realize it when they're done focussing all their energy on their career.

 

[john_1234]

agree w/ you all: mid-twenties and up

 

[STR8UP]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
At what age do you think women start getting on the I want to get married and have a family boat. I realize it probably happens a little sooner for women than men.

Women start thinking about that kind of sh!t way before they learn how babies are made.

 

[penkitten]

Re: Re: female mentality - mid 20's

Originally posted by STR8UP
Women start thinking about that kind of sh!t way before they learn how babies are made.

thats what i was thinking

 

[JackPrescott]

I know a woman who is 35 and still looks late 20's. I'll tell you what, if she wants to get together and play doctor with JP, well, he isnt going to argue with her about it. She is at a point, where she is tired of the dating scene, and hates being alone. She wants a man in her life. She may have (barely) one more shot at having a baby. The biological clock's time is about up. She doesnt want to deal with the single's/club/bar scene, and competing with a bunch of little 20 year olds. She doesnt want to deal with men who will simply "hit it" and move on. She wants some stability, at least this is what I sense of her. I like her, and want to get to know her a little better. But I wont waste too much time courting her, I dont want to waste time energy, effort and $$$ to get LJBF so right off the bat, she is going to know I want inside of her. If she has no problem with this, then she will get what she wants. You see, JP is no spring chicken himself, and she MAY be just what the doctor ordered. There has been a mutual attraction between us for years, but only now, are we both single, and willing. So we wait and see.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Options and conditions dictate this. The 20 y.o. fat chick (or soon to be fat chick) with fewer options is far more ready to lock in and play house than the HB 9 with more options.

This question can't be answered in a vacuum. For the HB 9, religious girl, who's been conditioned to interpret her only option for expressing her sexuality is marriage, then you have this as a variable.

 

[fan27]

I am 31 and am very reluctant to date a woman my age. Why bother when there are youngins who aren't so desperatate for marriage.

fan27

 

[MightyMate]

23 they are seeking for husband.

 

[MacAvoy]

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
This question can't be answered in a vacuum. For the HB 9, religious girl, who's been conditioned to interpret her only option for expressing her sexuality is marriage, then you have this as a variable.

This is sorta where she fits in but not totally. When she was in college, she did the club. ONS thing, but after 2 years of that, she matured and returned to her roots. She said she had a spiritual awakening a couple years ago and realized that lifestyle was not for her. That she wanted more from life, wanted the family etc...

With regards to some of the other comments about leading her on, I'm not worried about that. It is possibility that I am definately open to. I just wanted more feedback as to if this is what she would really be looking for and able to commit to I guess.

 

[DoubleA]

YO Man!

She's hearing wedding bells because her girlfriends are talking her up or boasting how they're go to take the step.

You still got some gas in the tank because otherwise you would've caved in.

She's only 25. She still got a ways to go before she's truely ready. As abstract as it sounds, think of how you were at 25. Now look at yourself. Your "needs" and "wants" then, are different from today.

Se if you can extend the lease, with a definite option to buy in it.