Female Mate Selection: AM I insane

[everywomanshero]

I try not to get all theoretical and keep posts to something concrete. However, I have no idea if my theories of female mate selection are accurate.

In terms of bearing children I tend to believe women do use some sort of Index of Male Dominance. I've been interviewing women for months to try and understand this. This is what I've came up with.

Women do not want their sons enduring any BS from other guys or having to bow down to any other guys. Women secretly select guys who they think do not have to take any crap. This is why we get so confused because sometimes women seem to want criminal types yet at the same time they go for executives and rock stars. I believe they pick guys who they feel don't have to take any **** off other men when they are looking to specifically to breed. Go out and interview 10 women who have a child and want a second. See if I am insane or you get the same reading.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Women are attacted to jerks because they don't take any crap. Thats why nice guys lose to jerks. Thats why alot of men want to become jerks because women love jerks. What happens when a girl marries a jerk. Usally the jerk ethier cheats on her, leaves her or she leaves him sick of his crap. If a boy is raised by a women he has good chance of becoming a nice guy.

Why ??

Because women have no idea how to get a guy to attart another women. Thats why alot of guys are here in the first place cause of the bullcrap lies they hear. Their mother went for thier jerk fathers because he won't put up with her crap and didn't act wussy and had confidnce, but because she dosen't want her son to be the same way she tells him all this stuff that makes girl run for the hills. I don't think women would hook up with a drug dealers so their kids can become drug dealers too. They hook up with these bad men because jerks turn her on and she dosen't know why.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Some girls date geeky dorky loser guys because they can control them.

Some girls date buff muscled jerky guys because they can be protected.

Some girls date rich nerdy guys because he has money and he has money to spend.
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Some boys date hot sexy girls because it will make them look cool in front of others.

Some boys date tomboys because they're more feminine and like a rougher girl.

Some boys date shy low self esteem girls because he can control them.

A person chooses another person because it fits what they want in their partner.