That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
OMG this video is the BOMB! It should be required viewing for every woman over age 18. It needs to go viral.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bingo. The missing link.
Agreed! I know several single women in their 30s and such who "refuse to settle". And most of them are neither attractive, nor all that fun to be around.
Interesting perspective.....
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That's sorta true.
Curious what is "lots to offer?"
I mean lets be real for a minute. It is easier to spend 30 bucks or 50 bucks or 99 bucks or 150 bucks on the "one secret technique that will make any woman become your love slave", which is some variety of what so many of the PUA people are peddling. The female dating experts sell it too, don't get me wrong. Maybe I'm in the wrong business. So guys spend the money and get a silly volume that doesn't tell them anything different than what they could learn here if they would get real, be honest and make an effort. They would rather believe the fantasy or be angry at the fantasy. That's easier than being accountable. Accountability requires effort over time. The PUA stuff sells and guys buy the stuff so it's all good. I'm pointing out the obvious I should think.
This is a harder question to answer because it depends on what a particular individual is seeking from the marketplace.
I'd say most of the forum are shooting for 7s, as far I can see. It's only a few well-known "elitists" who post around here who talk such game
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why though? seriously?
Nothing wrong it, per se. I just don't find it inspiring and I'd like to see men inspired to be better. Hard to want to be a rockstar if all you desire are easily accessible 5s. Know what I mean?
I am such a 1% man
Agreed but she likely will get more attention from guys.... like the comments on the Youtube video... Women are emotionals and don't want to be ''Accountable''.... Notice all the posts are guys agreeing and some women disagreeing.
I think you know I'm all for self improvement and the removal of self-limiting beliefs. Thinking --> Action --> Results. Absolutely. Cheers!I'd say most of the forum are shooting for 7s, as far I can see. It's only a few well-known "elitists" who post around here who talk such game
But really, I encourage all men to have ridiculous standards in the women they wish to attract and use that as motivation to become the man they want to be. I don't believe in nor solicit limitations in any man.
Any true DJ knows HB9's make for the worst LTRs and wives, hands down. MANY reasons. The "men" (most SS posters and users) drool over HB9's and will do anything for their attention. The odds of finding a HB9 that does not have SUBSTANTIAL princess, brat, or N/BPD issues would be like finding Bigfoot and teaching him to waltz and mix a martini. Stick with HB7's for any sort of lasting relationship if that's what you want. If it's all about games and PUA and all that BS, go for the hot ones of which 99% are REALLY messed up and uber-entitled. I base this on decades of dating experience. Only it's even more amplified now.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
