"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stumped

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AlphaGirl78, I dont think there is anything wrong with you at all. Actually you're saying all the right things as in how a women "should be like"

Honestly, I think you're just meeting a bunch of losers.

Keep dating and eventually you'll find him.


My advice to you would be to give the quite guys a second look, I think
you'll find they are closer to the real deal when it comes to confidence.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joe bloggs

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My $.02

I'm old school and I would never date a women who earns more than me, or has the potential to do so. I spent the last ten years in doing a BA & PhD and then post-doc higher education to get a faculty post and the last thing that I want to do is to play house-husband to a women who earns more than I do - and I am sure that most business men are the same.

To be blunt statistics show that most marriages and LTR's where the women earns more than the man fail. The only exception is where the man is uninterested in money and/or has a career where money and status aren't so tied together (i.e a personal trainer, a politician, sportperson or someone in the military).

This might seem chauvinistic but it is true.
 

sodbuster

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Fooling around on Match,it's kind of funny- 49 year old women,never married,specifying what kind of underwear I need to wear to date them? SORRY, not having nuts,you don't get to put me in underwear that you like(not your nuts getting pinched when you bend or sit wrong).
If you had a house on the market for 49 years and wanted to sell it,but couldn't;what would the real estate agent suggest? Improve the curb appeal? Lower the price? Fix the house up to lower maintenance costs for the buyer? I don't want to pay new price for an old house(with all it's little quirks and repairs),goes for women as well(I'm not putting up with young girl sh3t from old women)
I guess I'm saying"lower your standards,lower your attitude and realize your market value isn't going up with all the young women coming on the market"
 

DarkShade

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I wouldn't say she is beyond her reproductive years... biologically she can have kids just about any time from here on out. In fact she may not even be to her 'standard' sexual heightness, as women tend to in their 30s.
 
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