"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this girl i have known for a while has been with her man for a few years. Me and her talk online occasianally and we set up friday night to go out. We went to a bar and a movie then i dropped her home. She kept gettin text messages I assume from her bf as she must not have told him she was out with me. My thing is how do i go about banging her. She has told me I can come to her crib but she has to "plan" a day I guess so her bf dont pop up. So what should I do next?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I got 2 things to say about this 1

1. I agree with monk. Date single women because that girl has you in the friends zone. Since I started changing I have more girls talking to me but I still have more work to do. To tell you the truth you should apporach single women and date those girls. Your female friends sees you no more then a friend. Being in the friends zone isn't that great and if you want to be friends with a woman my advice is be friends with a woman your not attracted to so it dosen't hurt to be in the friends zone with her and you won't care.

2. Do you really want to date a women who cheats ?? image if she was your g/f ?? would you like it if she was out and about with other men ?? You gotta think hard when it comes to cheating because how would you react if a girl was cheating on you or you got busted cheating on her man.

Listen to monk, drop this girl and go for single women she not worth it in the long run.
 

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thanks i like single women 2 and im talking to a few but my ? was about this one so can anywone answer without giving me advice on sumthin I didnt ask bout?


second i dont care about her cheating on her man all girls cheat and she isnt married so its no big deal. If she was my girl and she cheated oh well I wouldnt go somewhere and cry bout it
 

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Originally posted by MarkHammond
this girl i have known for a while has been with her man for a few years. Me and her talk online occasianally and we set up friday night to go out. We went to a bar and a movie then i dropped her home. She kept gettin text messages I assume from her bf as she must not have told him she was out with me. My thing is how do i go about banging her. She has told me I can come to her crib but she has to "plan" a day I guess so her bf dont pop up. So what should I do next?
bring a bat, cause when he walks in , he will go apesh*t.
this sounds like something a chick would do , if she wants attention from her old man to catch her.
if she really wanted to have a fling with you and not get caught, she would do you at your house or in the park or a motel or soemthing.
she wouldnt set this up to be done at her house, where her jealous old man could catch her.

think this thru.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well have her set this time when you can go to her crib because her BF isn't around and **** her. Don't try and candy coat it with anything else.

See you are the number 2 guy - essentially a chump to her (and all her friends that she will tell) so you'll have to play it her way if you want sex.
 

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what about dating a female friend that is single? I have a female friend who i been friends with for awhile but we just started noticing each other in that way. we are movin towards sex but i dont know...
 

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if she is your close friend just start kisisng her, huging. if she stops you you say - dont worry. and just kjeep on doing. she knows she can trust you coz ur friend, and she will have sex with you
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by [o_0]
if she is your close friend just start kisisng her, huging. if she stops you you say - dont worry. and just kjeep on doing. she knows she can trust you coz ur friend, and she will have sex with you
yea but i wonder if it is even a good idea.
 

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why not? she obviously bored with her bf she been with for a few years. she just got her own apartment he doesnt live there and doesnt help her with no bills or nuthin. i took her out let her see what she missing for a night now Ill go to her crib and close the game like mariano rivera
 

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its a good idea i tell you. if u play it right, you gonna have sex with her often. thats good kind of freindship
 

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Originally posted by [o_0]
if she is your close friend just start kisisng her, huging. if she stops you you say - dont worry. and just kjeep on doing. she knows she can trust you coz ur friend, and she will have sex with you
She problay say rape and have you arrested. Then you will be sitting in jail for rape. Nice Advice :crackup: LOL
 

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i wouldnt rape her i know no means no. just tryin offer her a change from boring dude
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So what if I have a good friend that I am getting closer to and have kissed. Is it a good idea to sleep with your friends? especially when it would have to more then a FB? I dont think she would just want to be a FB at all. She probably "like me" likes me. else she would still be just a friend.
 

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thats ur problem u worrying bout how she feels and how she thinks fukk that its bout how u feel be a man emotions cloud reason dump ur frilly feelings and do what u gotta do
 
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