"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Female friend tries to con me into dating women my own age

MrLuvr

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Interesting discussion..

I got a phone number off a 17 year old today! And no, I did not have any idea she was 17 years old. I thought she must have been 21 or something. She was obviously flirting with me.

I just turned 40 years old this year. Now I am not going to use the number of course.. and she had no idea how old I was.. she thought I was 25. She will never know my real age.. and I don't plan on dating her.. lol.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lol @ MrLuvr's encounter. I recently had an encounter that went the opposite way. Ran into a gal who knew me because I know her mom ... lol. She looked like she could be in her late teens but was actually in her mid 20s.
 

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DharmaBear said:
This is a GREAT thread.

How old are you, STR8UP?

-Dharma
35 years young
 

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I have encounters with them all the time, and recently i've found myself attracted to one that isn't even 18 yet. I had no idea at first and one day she goes... I'm a junior in high school. So puts her at 17, or God only knows prob not even that. I dont keep track, but i'm sure to find out.

Anyway I get it from guys I work with, but this girl is just nice, funny, she smiles, full of energy, and one I could have a good time with. Something about her does it for me. She's cute as hell, and it drives me nuts she isn't 18.

So in my case i'm like you MrLuvr, i'm pretty much screwed for the time being. Doesn't mean I still dont talk to her or at least get her interested so by that time she's good to go, but I hate every minute I see this girl cause I want her.

And i'm the older dude who looks like i'm 18 so it always goes hand in hand. I attract them and get attracted to them, and then i'm usually screwed.

Girls I know would hate it if I eventually dated her down the road, and guys would think it rocks after it settles in and they get it through their head that I have her and they dont. The only reason they say anything. They know I could pull it off before they could.

Now I have to get this woman out of my mind which will be hard since I work with her and its not like I can avoid her, but damn it sucks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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