"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ambition Now

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So, I think I am geting out of friendzone without putting any effort on it.

A female friend of me from AFC days is throwing subtle suggestions that we should get together, also her girl friends are telling me that I should date her, be her boyfriend and stuff.

The reason for it is probably because her last BF dumped her about 3 months ago and she is alone right now. I know what that means, she is trying to use me as a backup.

My biggest concern is that Iused to have strong oneits for this girl and I dont want to go back to wussy AFC mode with her again...

Would you pick her up if you were in my shoes?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Get drunk with her at a bar, kiss her.

Dont talk to her for a month.

Repeat, but this time f her.
 
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Ambition Now said:
So, I think I am geting out of friendzone without putting any effort on it.

A female friend of me from AFC days is throwing subtle suggestions that we should get together, also her girl friends are telling me that I should date her, be her boyfriend and stuff.

The reason for it is probably because her last BF dumped her about 3 months ago and she is alone right now. I know what that means, she is trying to use me as a backup.

My biggest concern is that Iused to have strong oneits for this girl and I dont want to go back to wussy AFC mode with her again...

Would you pick her up if you were in my shoes?
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Have you changed? Because if you have changed from being an AFC then naturally you'll be more attractive to women.


Its your choice if you want to hook up with her. If you think you can't handle it don't hook up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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