Female friend talks about sex ALL THE TIME

[asid76]

Ok, so female friend in question has told me: I'm too old for her that I'm not her type and that it "would never work" if we hooked up. OK. Fine. I'm comfortable with that. Really. It bothers me that she says that, but I am really fine just being friends because she is not exactly my type either.

The thing is she talks about sex all the time. The conversations are really detailed and it seems the guys she is sleeping with are all "users". The last dude just got up off of her after it was finished and left her lying there to clean up the mess and everything by herself, and then he immediately got on the phone and left the house. Just no respect whatsoever.

I think she may be hinting that she wants me as a "f**k buddy" but I am not sure. I always have to listen to her talk about sex and I have to admit the talk makes me horny. And she is saying that her current f**k buddy only lasts five minutes and there is no pleasure for her. I personally have tremendous staying power and I know I could pleasure her immensely.

Although she says "we are just friends" she continues to keep the conversation sexual. What gives? Should I approach her and offer my sexual services? Should I just NOT talk about sex with her? I don't know what to do. She's not my type but I would definitely have fun getting it on with her. Help. I hate sex talk without the sex.

 

[asid76]

ooops I meant to put this in the discussion forum...is there a way to move it?

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

ooops I meant to put this in the discussion forum...is there a way to move it?

PM a mod .

 

[KingBeef]

Ok, so female friend in question has told me: I'm too old for her that I'm not her type and that it "would never work" if we hooked up. OK. Fine. I'm comfortable with that. Really. It bothers me that she says that, but I am really fine just being friends because she is not exactly my type either.

The thing is she talks about sex all the time. The conversations are really detailed and it seems the guys she is sleeping with are all "users". The last dude just got up off of her after it was finished and left her lying there to clean up the mess and everything by herself, and then he immediately got on the phone and left the house. Just no respect whatsoever.

I think she may be hinting that she wants me as a "f**k buddy" but I am not sure.

I need you to step back and read everything that you wrote to me above....now, TRULY THINK!!!!!

1. NEVER JUDGE A WOMAN BY WHAT SHE SAYS, BUT BY HER BEHAVIOR. If she says, i.e., that she's a "GOOD GIRL" and acts like a hor....you know what the deal is.

The thing is she talks about sex all the time. The conversations are really detailed and it seems the guys she is sleeping with are all "users". The last dude just got up off of her after it was finished and left her lying there to clean up the mess and everything by herself, and then he immediately got on the phone and left the house. Just no respect whatsoever.

2. TREAT HER FOR WHO SHE REALLY IS. Don't be Captain save-a-ho, treat her the way she expects to be treated.

I think she may be hinting that she wants me as a "f**k buddy" but I am not sure.

3. TRUST YOUR GUT!!!! If everything in your internal being is telling you that she likes you, or wants to just hook up with you, THEN WHY ARE YOU DOUBTING YOURSELF??? You simply need to REMOVE ALL DOUBT FROM YOUR MIND, AND TRULY TRUST YOURSELF. NEVER, EVER DOUBT YOURSELF AGAIN WHEN YOU KNOW DEEP DOWN WHAT THE REAL DEAL IS.

 

[Kev07]

just fvck her already

 

[Mike32ct]

Female friend takes about sex ALL THE TIME

I would find another girl to hook up with if I were you. Yes, she is talking about sex a lot, but it is sex with OTHER GUYS. Not good. Sure, those guys are users and losers, but she seems to enjoy that because she keeps coming back for more.

She totally has you in friends-zone and is teasing you with the sex talk. You are listening to her stories like it's porn or something.

I've known girls who act like this. Odds of hooking up with them are very, very slim. A girl who really wants to hook up with you will not be telling you about her sex life with other guys. She is treating you like one of her girlfriends, not a potentional lover or FB.

If you want to stay friends with her that's fine, but don't let her tease you or get you all worked up for nothing.

 

[KontrollerX]

Walk away.

She'll get the message of what she has to do for you if she wants to keep you in her life.

And once you get her treat her with the same lack of respect that the other men have.

This is what she wants on a deep sick level.

Read SunnyD's posts for further proof of this.

So yeah when you finally get to hit it when you blow your load put your pants on and walk out that door or tell her to go get a drink for you. Basically jerk behavior is what I mean by disrespecting her.

Trust me bro this chick craves this from you.

Its what gets her hot.

Edit: To set up a scenario where you can walk away with an implied message of what she has to do for you to keep you in her life try and kiss her the next time you meet. If she rejects you simply walk out of her house calm and cool and let her contact you. Letting her contact you is the setup to where you can make it clear what you want out of her to come back in her life. It puts you in the power position to have her contacting you.

 

[armadon]

Man the only time chicks talk about sex around me is when they arn't getting any. They will say something like they have a non existant sex life or I haven't gotten laid in awhile. Never that they just got rammed buy a C*ck or just gave a BJ. I say ditch her because I just don't deal with bs.

 

[iFEEL]

Instead of wasting your time here you should be already ****ing her.

It's a clear sign of interest from her side.

 

[Juando]

I've also got someone in my life who loves to talk about sex,
all sorts of things but mostly she wants to know about my sex life.

After reading this thread I know what to say to her next time we get together:

I don't talk sex with anybody I'm not having it with. Your choice.

 

[asid76]

Thanks for all the advice. I have formulated the rough outline of a plan for next time I see her.
I am going to keep the conversation sexual. I am going to flirt heavily and maybe increase the kino, while negging her alot since she seems to be a sucker for punishment. Then I'm thinking of telling her I don't want to talk about intimate things with someone I haven't been intimate with. But of course I will get more intimate at this point, neg her some more, flirt a bit more, then if all goes well I will ask "would you like to kiss me?" - if she says yes, then giddy-up. If she says no, I'll say "I didn't say you COULD, It just seemed like you wanted to". Haha. I love that line...

The only thing is, she is friends with some of my other friends and if she says NO to me, it could lead to embarassment if she tells anyone what I said/did. Anyhow, any advice on my above plan? I am all ears...

 

[GuanYu]

Best thing you can do is not to give a damn about what other people may think.

If it were me and some chick always talked about sex with me like that, I'd say something along the lines of "Well damn, you keep talkin like that you're gonna make me want to get you in the sheets."

Of course she'll laugh, at which time you shouldn't evem crack a smile. Just immediately start caressing her arms or something and keep flirting until she gets the hint you want to fvck.

I wouldn't even bother with neggin her. Just be very direct and she'll get the hint you're not there for games(if you're serious about bangin her)

From what you've said thus far, it doesn't seem like you've made many direct moves to get the panties off. Now is the time to do just that.

Even if she's not your type, so what? Guess what's between her legs? Something warm and enjoyable that every man should like.

Oh yeah, and this chick sounds like a h0 bag so if you don't hit it, it's your own fault. Get out there and good luck dude.

 

[Outsider]

Shes horny I bet, hook a brother up.

 

[asid76]

Guanyu...yeah you are right, I haven't made any direct moves.

She's a leftover female friend from my AFC days (see my first post in March)...so I totally WANTED to give it to her, I just stopped thinking about sex with her and decided to accept friendship from her cause she has some hot girlfriends.

Now that she is talking to me about her sexual escapades I am interested in her again. I never thought of her as a h0-bag but hey, I guess she is, because its like the third or fourth time that she has let herself be treated like a prostitute. And yes, I do want that warm and enjoyable pleasure that she can offer so I guess I'll move in like I mentioned above.

Worst case scenario: she'll say no and tell all my other friends. But at least I tried. And if nothing else, she will know not to talk about sex around me anymore - if she even still talks to me.
Best case scenario: she'll be responsive to my advances and I'll get laid. And if I get it once I can usually get it twice...

She is horny for sure...I just have to move in. I'll keep everyone posted.

 

[GuanYu]

Yeah man, I'd definitely be interested in hearing how this turns out. If you play your cards right, I think you'll like the results.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Unless you are one of the guys treating her like a "prostitute" rather than being her shoulder to cry on or her sounding board for complaining about men she's actually having sex with, I don't see this working. Good luck though man, report in.

 

[verysuave]

Unless you are one of the guys treating her like a "prostitute" rather than being her shoulder to cry on or her sounding board for complaining about men she's actually having sex with, I don't see this working. Good luck though man, report in.

im interested to see the outcome of this. I am subscribed to this thread and will keep bumping this up as i am in the same boat

 

[Prodigy746]

thats crazy man ,, dont let her do that to you. Just for it and see what happens if she rejects you than next her ass. Seems to me like she is teasing you or trying to tell you to **** her. Eitherone of thos will work.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

How old is she?

 

[Warrior74]

Dispite his constant Sunny D refrences I think Kontroller X is right. She's using you and teasing you. Give her the gift of missing you. Cut her off for a while. Drop her for a month or two. (this is a test of your willpower, can you even do that? be honest with yourself, if you say no..then you got issues eh?)

When you do come back , don't talk, act. go for the sex.