Hi all,
Have any of you guys encounter cases whereby your female friend(s) starts showing signs of attraction towards you (due to the amt of DJs here, I assume that's a yes).
I'm currently in this situation whereby a friend is starting to get sticky and would always stick close to me when we go out as a group, suggest places to go out to, tell me all her personal stuff without me asking and all kinds of other signs. Basically, it's like I'm not doing anything and she's making all the moves. Basically, the signs that makes you feel a bit uneasy.
In the past, I've encountered 2 similar cases like this and it ended up with those 2 girls really hating me to the core after I rejected them outright.
Sometimes when I think back, I feel I could have done better than making them hate me like this.
So, to prevent similar cases, I've 3 questions:
1) Since I have no interest in her and I want to purely just keep her as a friend (don't want her as a **** buddy cos' she's below 7), should I do anything to prevent further misunderstanding? Like being cold? That's what I did previously but it kind of only drove the girls to be more aggressive :crazy:
2) In the event that the girl confesses to me, how do I reject her without making her hate me? I mean, this is a really good friend who shares a similar wavelength as me, and I treat her like I treat my close guy friends.
3) Is it possible that when you just "be yourself" and don't do any DJ moves, girls can still somehow be attracted to you??! The 2 girls in the past were a 7 and a 8.5, and I was just being neutral and even kinda cold to them, but somehow they just became the one coming after me instead. I thought you need to pull moves and stuff like flirting to make girls come after you?
Tks!
Have any of you guys encounter cases whereby your female friend(s) starts showing signs of attraction towards you (due to the amt of DJs here, I assume that's a yes).
I'm currently in this situation whereby a friend is starting to get sticky and would always stick close to me when we go out as a group, suggest places to go out to, tell me all her personal stuff without me asking and all kinds of other signs. Basically, it's like I'm not doing anything and she's making all the moves. Basically, the signs that makes you feel a bit uneasy.
In the past, I've encountered 2 similar cases like this and it ended up with those 2 girls really hating me to the core after I rejected them outright.
Sometimes when I think back, I feel I could have done better than making them hate me like this.
So, to prevent similar cases, I've 3 questions:
1) Since I have no interest in her and I want to purely just keep her as a friend (don't want her as a **** buddy cos' she's below 7), should I do anything to prevent further misunderstanding? Like being cold? That's what I did previously but it kind of only drove the girls to be more aggressive :crazy:
2) In the event that the girl confesses to me, how do I reject her without making her hate me? I mean, this is a really good friend who shares a similar wavelength as me, and I treat her like I treat my close guy friends.
3) Is it possible that when you just "be yourself" and don't do any DJ moves, girls can still somehow be attracted to you??! The 2 girls in the past were a 7 and a 8.5, and I was just being neutral and even kinda cold to them, but somehow they just became the one coming after me instead. I thought you need to pull moves and stuff like flirting to make girls come after you?
Tks!
