EverSure75
Don Juan
Good Day gentlemen...
I had to share this story and no one in my circle would appreciate as much as you here.
In my afc days I got close to a woman who lived overseas. I was actually trying to have a long distance relationship. I'd fly to visit her once a month for about 4 months. Sex was good we had a lot in common we found each other attractive. When i started to push for something more serious she declined. Told me that she can't do the long distance thing. I was hurt at the time but in retrospect very grateful. Lol
i decreased level of communication over the years. We went from texting each other good morning to a hey how you doing every month or so.
Fast forward a few years later, I visit her city and she tells me I can stay with her. We fked each other's brains out and I met up with other women around. I had fun. Expected nothing from her.
A year later (a few months back) I'm back in her town. Having come to terms with my afc ways in my past dealings, I told her non chalantly that I'm visiting her city and I'm staying at a hotel. She adamantly says " no you can't do that. Stay at my place"
Against my better judgement i agree.
I get ready to sleep on her couch my first night and she tells me to sleep in her bed with her.
I make a move to kiss her and she hits me with "i can't. It's not you. I'm just trying to figure out some things"
I say cool. The following day I check into a hotel. Told her I'm not comfortable there.
We run into each other at an event I'm there for and she's on me like glue. I'm polite but not affectionate in the least.
Now fast forward to about a month ago. A mutual friend of ours gives a friend my contact info to help her out with some business. Me and this new friend meet up. She's kinda hot we end up going on a date a few days later.
The mutual friend then emails me telling me this new girl is bad news. And I should avoid her because she's "messy".
She then goes on to say that she can't believe she hit on me when she knows that her friend (who I stayed with overseas) still likes me. I was like "huh?!"
The mutual friend then tells the new friend that she should back off me because her friend overseas still likes me.
Amazing.
So she ****blocks me because a friend who has me sleeping in her bed but won't kiss me still "likes" me. Lol.
Women are something else.
I had to share this story and no one in my circle would appreciate as much as you here.
In my afc days I got close to a woman who lived overseas. I was actually trying to have a long distance relationship. I'd fly to visit her once a month for about 4 months. Sex was good we had a lot in common we found each other attractive. When i started to push for something more serious she declined. Told me that she can't do the long distance thing. I was hurt at the time but in retrospect very grateful. Lol
i decreased level of communication over the years. We went from texting each other good morning to a hey how you doing every month or so.
Fast forward a few years later, I visit her city and she tells me I can stay with her. We fked each other's brains out and I met up with other women around. I had fun. Expected nothing from her.
A year later (a few months back) I'm back in her town. Having come to terms with my afc ways in my past dealings, I told her non chalantly that I'm visiting her city and I'm staying at a hotel. She adamantly says " no you can't do that. Stay at my place"
Against my better judgement i agree.
I get ready to sleep on her couch my first night and she tells me to sleep in her bed with her.
I make a move to kiss her and she hits me with "i can't. It's not you. I'm just trying to figure out some things"
I say cool. The following day I check into a hotel. Told her I'm not comfortable there.
We run into each other at an event I'm there for and she's on me like glue. I'm polite but not affectionate in the least.
Now fast forward to about a month ago. A mutual friend of ours gives a friend my contact info to help her out with some business. Me and this new friend meet up. She's kinda hot we end up going on a date a few days later.
The mutual friend then emails me telling me this new girl is bad news. And I should avoid her because she's "messy".
She then goes on to say that she can't believe she hit on me when she knows that her friend (who I stayed with overseas) still likes me. I was like "huh?!"
The mutual friend then tells the new friend that she should back off me because her friend overseas still likes me.
Amazing.
So she ****blocks me because a friend who has me sleeping in her bed but won't kiss me still "likes" me. Lol.
Women are something else.
