You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
:yes:( . )( . ) said:Mehh, who gives a fvck if some random chick who doesnt look like a pitbull with tits could knock my teeth out. I'd be more impressed if she could sew, bake a cake , cherish and understand the concept of a family unit.
uh huh...id love for her to put me in her guard so i can ground and pound the hell out of her or have her submit to me. :yes:toddlips said:You guys know she is "CRUSH" from American Gladiators, right?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah shes really beautiful..maybe not a supermodel but in her interviews and stuff shes a really cool chick, and combined with her beauty on the outside, she could be a true 10. Beauty on the inside and outside is rare.Colossus said:I will admit, I am in love with Gina Carano. A true 10, in my opinion.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I know..but a hardcore chick like that turns me on bad! Id propose to that kind of chick that has the whole package. Im not putting her on a pedestal either but its true. When she fights Cyborg ill be grinding my teeth and clinching my fists hoping she doesn't get her face damaged...shes too pretty.STR8UP said:She reminds me of my favorite g/f of all time. The hair, the smile, the cheerful disposition
She needs to be in a bikini holding a card, not in the ring getting that pretty face smashed up.
haahahahhahahahahMisterSinister said:She can CRUSH my balls anytime!!
same (the girl that had me searching for this sight)... personality wise... looks wise... but not the bad ass fighter type (which i'm glad for)... sexy as hell. oh god.STR8UP said:She reminds me of my favorite g/f of all time. The hair, the smile, the cheerful disposition![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.