"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Female dating gurus (or even PUAs)

ilikecharlene

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Call this strange, but I don't get many female dating gurus. I trust the male ones more. Why is this is so? Well the female ones seem to translate what all women are supposed to like/react to, when this is impossible since everybody is different. The only female one I like is Miss Singlefied on Youtube.

People like Kezia Noble are too pretentious lol.. She is near perfect 10 though, so I won't be so scathing:rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zerro

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Most women don't even know what they want, so how the hell can one try and tell all the rest what they want?
 

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ilikecharlene said:
Call this strange, but I don't get many female dating gurus. I trust the male ones more. Why is this is so? Well the female ones seem to translate what all women are supposed to like/react to, when this is impossible since everybody is different. The only female one I like is Miss Singlefied on Youtube.

People like Kezia Noble are too pretentious lol.. She is near perfect 10 though, so I won't be so scathing:rockon:
From what I know about her from people who used to work with her and a couple of students she had, Kezia is a good example of what this poster is talking about:

http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/c..._a_weird_question_but_what_is_it_like/c1920o8

I truly believed that men were genuinely nice to women as a matter of course. I believed that most people were nice and accommodating and liked people. This was because most of my friends were hot as well, and guys were falling all over themselves to help us, so this is all I knew. I simply didn't realize that some men are deeply hostile and only nice to women they want to ****. I did not realize the weird code in society which equated beauty with importance. Such a thought never occurred to me that the world might be a different place than I had experienced.
Kezia apparently has some decent advice because she's been exposed to the community, but it's advice she was apparently given from other instructors who know what's up (this was the general consensus from 2 people I know who trained with her, that she was derivative and unoriginal).
 

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No don't have a problem at all, it doesn't help to get the perspective from the type of lady I want to attract. Kezia is great I will go over her material again soon, Victoria Zdrok is another lady who is an absolute knockout, she has some great advise in her book, Dr Z on Scoring. Another one is Leil Lowndes. If I could find more I would definetly look at them. The more I can get into the mindset of the lady I want to attract the better.
 

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remotecontrol said:
Absolutely agree

The last person id ask for advice about women would be a woman. I mean inst that the whole problem, the advice women give about themselves is always contradictory. The women who tout themselves as PUA instructors usually have looks and bodies that attract male attention and MONEY. Its a marketing strategy to bring in the big bucks...these women PUA gurus only know what they know because some PUA guy told them to rehash everything and sell it with their looks as something new and "original". Any guy who buys into the female PUA stuff is a complete suckkkkerrrrr. Its yet another way that attractive "high status" b17che5 play suckers for attention and money. Why do i even need to point that out..Kezia hahaha, yeah i wouldn't kick her out of bed but i aint gonna pay to listen to her..pleeeassee, I wouldn't pay her a dime for anything..if you do then your just another trick and u aint learned 5h17.

You make a good point about the female PUA coaches being hotties. How much of their success in the business is from looks alone? The only woman I'd trust on the subject would be a butt ugly lesbo with a high notch count with hotties.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ihateinitiatingalot7 said:
what about Marni Wing? anyone know of her? what do you think of her advice?
Her advice is valid somewhat.

Most women in the PUA field are trying to make money. We all know that women don't know what they want. What women say and respond to and do are all lightyears apart.

Now that everybody has some sort of PUA material, look at how women view men now. :eek:

All this PUA sh*t did was, for the most part, delude men's minds and give them a free pass to bother women out of their league. :box:
 
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