You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I've gone to bed with two. That article puts several things I've heretofore found puzzling into context. Appreciate you sharingThe Hidden Cycling Injury That’s Forcing Women to Give Up Riding Bikes
Too many women quit cycling because of labial swelling and pain. Here’s why it happens, what they can do about it, and how to prevent it in the first place.www.bicycling.com
Don't date bicyclists if you don't like big twaats...
I've never dated an avid cycler, so I wouldn't know.
