"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Female Bosses.

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So I have had this female boss. Everything was going just great but then I found out she wants the MisterSisterFister D!*K. Unfortunately I have learned my lesson I do not mess around with fellow employee's esepcially the ones above me.

But unfortunately this has turned out very bad for me. She has gone from super sweet to super tw@t really fast. I am not sure how exactly to work this?

So not only for my circumstance but for future ones.

Should I game her like all normal brods? But I do not want her so how would I go about keeping her pleased?

I am desperatly trying to keep the frame in this work enviroment but the sh!t she is pulling is starting to really effect me making my life misreable?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fatal Jay

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no,never

don't ever screw with your money like that bro, I been there on my last job,when things go sour after you guys hanged out you will regrect it

its not worth it
 
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I am sorry if I came across like I wanted her. I do not. I am just wondering how to please her to keep her from ****ing with my Living. She is my boss. How to I base our interactions do I keep them like I am gaming her or do I go about it differently.
 

Fatal Jay

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nah,dont flirt with her but at the sametime be friendly

even come up with how you went on a date last weekend with a girl to go see the hobbit or something

that will let her know your off the market
 

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she wont be such a "boss" when she's on her knees, slapping a d!ck against her face!







but yes fatal jay is right - don't mess with your currency
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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