"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Female Behavior?

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FiddleyDee

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So, about ten years ago I dated a gal for a couple years before it ended (her choice). We're still on good terms, however once every 1-2 years she gets in a mood where she starts texting me, reminiscing about the good times in our dating relationship, in spite of the fact that she's made it clear over the years that she has no intention of ever getting back together. There was a time, long ago, when I wanted her back (and she knew it), but now I could care less. Is this just some form of female ****-tests?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fly By Night

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Ten years? I hope you're spinning plates. Move on, if that was her attempt at getting back together with you, then it is just to keep you as a boredom kill 'til she finds another dude to screw for the next 1-2 year gap.

Honestly, this would irritate me and I probably wouldn't even reply. If I did, it would go along the lines of "It was meh, I'm just happy to move on from it"

P.S. How old are you?
 
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GotED?

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She probably texts you right after someone dumps her in a relationship and you know that 'rebound' effect - we all go through it. Trying to find something safe and familiar to help us get over the person we just broke up with. Not worth it.

with respect,

Exodus
 
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