Female attraction isn’t that complex, you just have an obsessive personality

[SmoothSmooth]

99% of ‘game’ is just ruminations from men with low self esteem or obsessive personality types

female attraction isn’t that complex

What attracts women? Having a good mix of
1) Looks, money, status and confidence/social boldness (if you lack one quality, having an abundance of the other can compensate)
2) her personal preferences (race, style, profession, subculture)
3) her state of mind/mood/availability (ie if she is seeing anyone else). The hotter she is, the less likely she is available.

Because of the above factors, it’s simply a numbers game once you have obtained a decent mix of looks, money and status

In the long term what keeps them? non neediness, maintaining chemistry and spontaneity, and retaining your looks, money and status

It’s really that simple, log off, go outside.

 

[Stanley]

99% of ‘game’ is just ruminations from men with low self esteem or obsessive personality types

I think many of the guys that 'study' game are just inexperienced or lacking in masculine role models who should've showed them the way. A lot of guys come here to make up for the things they lack.

What attracts women? Having a good mix of
1) Looks, money, status and confidence/social boldness (if you lack one quality, having an abundance of the other can compensate)
2) her personal preferences (race, style, profession, subculture)
3) her state of mind/mood/availability (ie if she is seeing anyone else). The hotter she is, the less likely she is available.

Yup, but a lot of guys don't understand the nuance to those factors and how to use them effectively.

Because of the above factors, it’s simply a numbers game once you have obtained a decent mix of looks, money and status

It is, but you can have direct influence over those numbers. Many men have those qualifiers yet they still fail with women or often times they don't put themselves in contact with women. They have the tools, but don't know how to use them. Speaking of tools you hit the nail on the head, but I don't want to diminish men seeking out ways to improve themselves and be more successful with the opposite sex.

It’s really that simple, log off, go outside.

Yeah i'm on here too much of late, keep getting pulled back

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OP you missed "access" to women, that's a big issue. Making social connections, mastering the apps, improving your location, etc.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

And if you got the date and it went bad either -

1) you didn’t display enough sexual intent (sexual confidence/awkwardness)
2) she didn’t respect you before the date, you failed to pick up the cues. So she used you for your time/a meal and decided this before meeting you
3) you came across as boring during conversation. You gave boring or low value answers. You didn’t create intrigue

super simple

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

It's just action faking. People would rather discuss problems because its easier than actually taking action. It's the same as most people who go to therapy, they do it so they feel like they're accomplishing something instead of taking the necessary steps to fix their situation.