"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Female AFC...what to do?

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Ok...so i been through all this material on the site and I made myself a much better person and I banged a lot more ladies. Now I'm 20 and I met this awesome 17 year old girl. In the month i've known her she's done more for me then any other girl in a non sexual way.

I'm satisfied sexually with her too so its all good. ;)

Now I'm getting hated on by most my guy friends because of the whole age difference. I have no idea what to do with that but tell people to **** off :)

I'm thinking though, she's really connected to me and all that, but i'm starting to question if she's just being an AFC and if she has her own case of one-itis.

Any comments or suggestions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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3 years is hardly too much of an age difference!!

You have an awesome girl, you are satisfied with her sexually, and she does lots of stuff for you non-sexually.

Damn, I wish I had your problem :p

What exactly is it that you don't like in this situation?

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You're cool man! A guy 3 years older is perfectly normal, she's 17, she's pretty much a woman. You like her, she likes you, she's enjoying you a lot. Since you are older, she sees you as a cool guy, and you got her perfectly. Just enjoy.
 
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alright post 160! yyeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!

ok, now back to you. tell them nothing, just plain ignore it, and then diss them over one of their insecurities.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That is not a big deal age difference. I know 25 year olds who have dating 17 year olds and gotten made fun of. I've dated guys up to 13 years older than me. The only real issue is the statutory thing, but the laws are different everywhere, so I'm guessing it's legal for you. Tell them to go **** themselves because they're just jealous that your 17 year old girl is better than their 20 year old ones. (No don't really tell them that, but that's probably where their **** is coming from). As for the AFC-oneitis thing... yeah at 17 it is possible. That's the only drawback of dating someone younger, they're less experienced - physically, mentally, emotionally, etc...
 
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Originally posted by Corndowg
Now I'm getting hated on by most my guy friends because of the whole age difference.
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Malibu's right, they are hating on you because she is hot and they are probably having a hard time even scoring with the fugly's. If she can't get into pubs/clubs that's a pain, but apart from that tell them to get stuffed.
 
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you got nothing to worry about bro, three years is not a problem these days. you just gotta treat her right so she doesnt haul you off to jail.

theres a general rule of thumb i try to go by and its seven years plus half your age.

even then if you're really old, you can still hit on the barely legal 18 yr olds, just check out michael douglas, hes like 1000 years old and he got married to catherine zeta jones and is has 2 kids.

i wouldnt worry about it
 
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I was looking at my old posts and here's an update to this one.

It's now mid June and I've basically been connected to this girl all year. I'm "officially" with her and I love her a lot. It's actually going way too good. I've met her parents and family and everything. It's creepy but I guess I'm just climbing the ropes of life. People think we look cute together when we're all "lovey dovey like we're obsessed with each other."

I'm not sure but I think I'm blessed to have this girl and in the back of my mind I know I ain't ****.

So basically there's hope for love for EVERYONE!
 
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theyre just jealous.. dont listen to them

17 to 20 is practically no difference IMO
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who gives a **** what your friends think. Its like back in highschool when an AFC doesnt want to hit on a girl because they are affraid of rejection in the slightest manor.

Seriously, who gives a rats ass about wtf your friends think, they are too worried about what other people think to worry about you. The majority of the time friends do it to thier friends to get a reaction out of them.
 
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