"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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fellow suavers, help with girl "friend"

Johnny5000

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Hey all, here's the story

girl i knew for a while, hung out in the same circle....she gets boyfriend, i figure i'm friendzoned. I move away for school.....I move home, find out she's single again, we start hangin out in groups.... this time around i act flirty, not too available etc etc... then one night much to my surprise we're drunk one night and we make out a bit. after that we dont mention it and things go on like normal.

do i have a shot or should i give up ? I definitely dig her in a relationship way but haven't called or txt'd her too much if fear of being friendzoned/afc . any advice ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yama600rr

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you already kissed her, you should fingered her! make her taste her own wet ****!
 
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