"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fellow minorities, what kinds of women do you slay?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skinnyguy

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Lol, and yet you say I’m the one who’s always whining about race.

Indian
I get southern white girls, and Indian girls
 

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very believable, gonna have to stop lying to us man
You’re so anti Skinny Guy that you think everything I say is a lie. Oh well last time I’ll ever respond to your post, congratulations
 

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You’re so anti Skinny Guy that you think everything I say is a lie. Oh well last time I’ll ever respond to your post, congratulations
I have nothing against you man but we both know you don't get white girls, period.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I look Spanish/Puerto Rican and I have a very strong preference for women who have the same appearance (black hair, olive skin)
 

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What about white minorities?

I am white and a minority in my country.

In my dating life: I was told often ''I dont date other colors, race, religion''.... but with game I've laid girls from all background.

It's hard being a white minority... I wish there was more diversity
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What about white minorities?

I am white and a minority in my country.

In my dating life: I was told often ''I dont date other colors, race, religion''.... but with game I've laid girls from all background.

It's hard being a white minority... I wish there was more diversity
Just catch up on the norms of that area and you’ll be good
 

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List your race and then list what kinds of girls you get, yes, that even includes you @skinnyguy
why are you always posting about race? what is your friggin hangup about race? mods, why do you continue to allow this race baiting, bigoted and racist material? is it because it is racism from the perspective of a minority? can I post a thread and not get banned that goes something like, hey fellow white guys, which minority chicks can you do more sh*t to than a farm animal?
 

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why are you always posting about race? what is your friggin hangup about race? mods, why do you continue to allow this race baiting, bigoted and racist material? is it because it is racism from the perspective of a minority? can I post a thread and not get banned that goes something like, hey fellow white guys, which minority chicks can you do more sh*t to than a farm animal?
How is what I said race baiting and bigoted? It's a simple poll and survey. Race matters when it comes to attraction and I want to get a feel for what kinds of girls guys are attracting based on their race because girls care.

As for your thread, why ask which minority chicks you can do more sh*t to than a farm animal? Ask which ones you attract and let me answer that for you, the answer is ALL if you have your life together because women are brainwashed into going for white guys thanks to media.

Chill out, no one loses their cool when white guys talk about chasing latinas and Asian women.
 

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How is what I said race baiting and bigoted? It's a simple poll and survey. Race matters when it comes to attraction and I want to get a feel for what kinds of girls guys are attracting based on their race because girls care.

As for your thread, why ask which minority chicks you can do more sh*t to than a farm animal? Ask which ones you attract and let me answer that for you, the answer is ALL if you have your life together because women are brainwashed into going for white guys thanks to media.

Chill out, no one loses their cool when white guys talk about chasing latinas and Asian women.
I've never once seen a white guy post a poll about how well he does with minority chicks and ranking people based on race. You'd never accept it and the mods would close it and my account might be suspended.
 

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Can we please just stop creating all these race threads. Your race does NOT matter if you have a high smv and social proof
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There it is, the hate for white men. I have never seen threads focused on whites chasing asian or latinas either.
funny part is, you don't have to get them to flat out admit it, their own responses show the hatred for the white man. News flash for anyone non-white in a western country, whites make up the bulk of the population. You're going to run into a white dominated culture, it's the country you're in. Just like an Asian country is an Asian dominated culture. Just like an African country is an African dominated culture. Just like a latino culture is a latino dominated culture. Good God, get over it "minorities", get over it.
 

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Actually being exotic should help get you laid.

So being à minority should play in your favor.

+ if you have game and social value

Unlimited potential...especially with the white ones (who love exotism)
 

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Actually being exotic should help get you laid.

So being à minority should play in your favor.

+ if you have game and social value

Unlimited potential...especially with the white ones (who love exotism)
Really agree
 
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