"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fell for my mistress.... Damn it !.....

Dingo

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Lots of varied and interesting opinions. Thanks.

I kept the post short... I don't know what else I can add. Basically... If you play be prepared to pay an emotional price.

We will take it to its inevitable conclusion.... Unfortunately whatever happens there is going to be pain.... SS has helped me prepare for that. Pain is temporary and I/we will survive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lots of varied and interesting opinions. Thanks.

I kept the post short... I don't know what else I can add. Basically... If you play be prepared to pay an emotional price.

We will take it to its inevitable conclusion.... Unfortunately whatever happens there is going to be pain.... SS has helped me prepare for that. Pain is temporary and I/we will survive.
I don't think your wife is a good partner. If she was she wouldn't be cold. I can't imagine her financial assistance is that great and she definitely does not help your morale.
 
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