"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fell Asleep lol

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Ok long story short I was with a girl the other night and I happened to fall asleep on her before we were going to have sex. When I woke up she was gone I text her but no response. I understand if she's mad because I played with her before we laid down, but I was EXHAUSTED from working 7 straight doubles(13 hour days) I got another plate but I think it's funny that she would get pissed off at me especially when I told her that I was working all these hours but I would make time to see her, am I wrong for falling asleep? Do you think this situation is salvageable? Trust me I'm not going to lose my composure and apologize and start trying to seek her approval it is what it is she wants to leave she's gone
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ouch, yes she probably feels insulted. I doubt she came over so you could sleep on her before fulfilling the deed...lol. Neither do I think she computed the fact that you were exhausted.

It never happened to me, so I cannot speak from experience here, but my guess is she probably is turned off. Wait a few days before initiating contact again. Keep us updated on what happens.
 
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Who cares?

If you fell asleep, you fell asleep. Your body just shut down. It's not like you willingly decided to just not have sex with her. If she can't understand that, then you are better off without her.

Seriously, this shouldn't even be a question, a situation, nor a problem.
 
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Thanks for the responses guys I'm not too concerned about what happens I just think it's funny because she was talking all this I just wanted her for sex, but not that night lol goodnight
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kailex said:
Who cares?

If she can't understand that, then you are better off without her.

Seriously, this shouldn't even be a question, a situation, nor a problem.
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so true, cant add anything
 
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