Feild Report--- Want your comments.....

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

squirrels

Master Don Juan

Aug 23, 2004

hb, way to go on actually talking to her and getting the number. If it's for real, cool. Just don't be calling her up full-time now. And if you say "let's just be friends", be careful taht isn't where she sticks you. YOu can say pretty much ANYTHING, but don't start ACTING like you want to be her friend or that's where you'll end up. My take, anyway.

As for some of the rest of you...