"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Feigning gay as game:

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I have been studying some posts from Espi, who practised an opener saying "If I were not gay, then I would be so into you". From what I've read it appears that he has got some milage on that in disarming women, or something like that.

Or, I've even heard reports of guys asking women claiming they are gay and asking a random women if they can grope them and getting positve results most of the time.

This is just something that's being analyzed and want to see if any one else uses this sort of game, what sort of reactions they have got, and what is the method behind this madness -- why would this work and where is this used?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why would you pretend to be gay to get results? Sounds like insecurity to me. Be a man and be who you are and go out and get what you want. If some chick doesn't want what you have to offer, then get the next one.

Don't put the pvssy on a pedestal and change who you are to get it.
 

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so first you paid a hooker to give you a hug and now you want to pretend to be gay?
 

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Scion said:
so first you paid a hooker to give you a hug and now you want to pretend to be gay?
I guess you have not seen the other update on that thread.
 

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speedwheel said:
Why would you pretend to be gay to get results? Sounds like insecurity to me. Be a man and be who you are and go out and get what you want. If some chick doesn't want what you have to offer, then get the next one.

Don't put the pvssy on a pedestal and change who you are to get it.
Yup, I understand the "dbot" fieldtested strategy of going up to random women and asking if they want a fvck.

That is another thread topic, I'm assuming that this is what you mean.

Don't assume that I am interested in trying this out as game. I merely wish to entertain myself by hearing stories of people who try this "Mystery Method" opener and what the reaction is.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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scion u crazy boy lol but uh correct u need to rethink goin through with this gay game bcuz its wrong n many ways my dude
 

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i've used this, sorta. before i could get the whole opener out the girls were commenting on my peacocking and grabbing my glasses off, then i negged on her they were rude and wouldn't even let me finish my pickup line. I then told them the line and they kino me and laugh. it's supposed to be said as a joke like you aren't afraid to say you're gay and joke about it. it's funny. Style used it. It's a funny opener they soon realize you aren't gay you tell them it was a joke. it's really for beginners out there.
 
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