So I was thinking about this topic of feelings and emotions as a guy, and I thought about being a DJ, and not AFC, and how guys shouldn't really express any type of feelings towards a woman, or "spill their guts" per se, and it got me thinking about if there is a fine line to where some is too much, but at the same time if their isn't enough, the woman gets upset.
Now correct me if I am wrong ladies, but many times you hear... If you would have just told me how you felt about me.... or something similar from a woman, and they actually want to hear that from a guy.
You hear on here all of the time and in the DJ Bible about how you should never tell a woman you like her, and how you express that by your actions, and that she'll get the clue.
My question is, if you are around a woman who over the past few months has just amazed you, and she's exactly what you are looking for in a woman, so much so that is scares the crap out of you, what do you do? You realize that most of your life this has never been a problem. Sure you've had girlfriends and dated, but no one has hit you like a freight train like this woman has.
Say you've never thought about telling a woman your TRUE feelings cause you know that's not what your supposed to do, and then one fine day you find yourself wondering if you should keep up what you are doing, and just keep it inside or let it all out and lay it on the table, so you can stop holding it in.
What if the woman WANTS to hear what you have to say about her, and that maybe she's waiting for you to say something, instead of hiding it all inside. what if she thinks that you are NOT an emotional being, and she doesn't like that, and the fact you cant tell her how you feel about her.
It would seem odd one would think to go through life not telling someone something especially if they were someone who just has never hit you like anyone else ever has. What if you told a woman what she's never heard before, cause no one felt the way they did about her as you did. One day we may be alive and the next day dead, and what if that other person never knew cause we told ourselves... I AM MAN, I AM NOT SUPPOSED TO SPILL MY GUTS. I AM MADE OF CONCRETE.
Anyway, I'm after thoughts about all of this from the male point of view and the female point of view. I know we dont have too many females on here, but we have a handful that can give their thoughts on a topic like this.
Now correct me if I am wrong ladies, but many times you hear... If you would have just told me how you felt about me.... or something similar from a woman, and they actually want to hear that from a guy.
You hear on here all of the time and in the DJ Bible about how you should never tell a woman you like her, and how you express that by your actions, and that she'll get the clue.
My question is, if you are around a woman who over the past few months has just amazed you, and she's exactly what you are looking for in a woman, so much so that is scares the crap out of you, what do you do? You realize that most of your life this has never been a problem. Sure you've had girlfriends and dated, but no one has hit you like a freight train like this woman has.
Say you've never thought about telling a woman your TRUE feelings cause you know that's not what your supposed to do, and then one fine day you find yourself wondering if you should keep up what you are doing, and just keep it inside or let it all out and lay it on the table, so you can stop holding it in.
What if the woman WANTS to hear what you have to say about her, and that maybe she's waiting for you to say something, instead of hiding it all inside. what if she thinks that you are NOT an emotional being, and she doesn't like that, and the fact you cant tell her how you feel about her.
It would seem odd one would think to go through life not telling someone something especially if they were someone who just has never hit you like anyone else ever has. What if you told a woman what she's never heard before, cause no one felt the way they did about her as you did. One day we may be alive and the next day dead, and what if that other person never knew cause we told ourselves... I AM MAN, I AM NOT SUPPOSED TO SPILL MY GUTS. I AM MADE OF CONCRETE.
Anyway, I'm after thoughts about all of this from the male point of view and the female point of view. I know we dont have too many females on here, but we have a handful that can give their thoughts on a topic like this.
