"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Feeling the oneitis .. I think

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Well no idea why I am even making this thread because I cant tell if its from stress of exams or if its real oneitis. I feel like im starting to slip back to my old oneitis girl :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: Shes been helping me with some of my studying and I dont know what it is but I somewhat feel ... attracted to her again. And she didnt even change one bit. Maybe its because im focused on lifting and school/studying and I havent been spinning any plates so maybe that could be the causation. But seriously .... how do I forget about her but at the same time I cant lose her as a valuable asset to my studies ..... Im caught in the middle of school and women -___- :box: :box:

Any tips would be awesome! Thanks SS
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I successfully avoided oneits for the past two years before finally succumbing to it over the summer. It's not just that she was my only option. It's that I was going through a kind of uncertain time -- recently graduated again, looking for a job. I feel like this is a prime case of when oneitis sets in... when you have nothing else going for you... or at least feel that way.

In your case man, she's not the only girl who can help you study. You say you don't have any plates and that's what causing this so get more options. In college I always made time to hunt, even during finals week!
 

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New and Improved is right - options.

Surely realising it is the first step to recovery anyway, so if you really cant drop her as a study buddy and grab a new one, at least you can grab a hold of your balls before you put them in her purse.:up:
 

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NewAndImproved said:
I successfully avoided oneits for the past two years before finally succumbing to it over the summer. It's not just that she was my only option. It's that I was going through a kind of uncertain time -- recently graduated again, looking for a job. I feel like this is a prime case of when oneitis sets in... when you have nothing else going for you... or at least feel that way.

In your case man, she's not the only girl who can help you study. You say you don't have any plates and that's what causing this so get more options. In college I always made time to hunt, even during finals week!

Agreed with the options, damn man you should've been studying haha! I dont know I just dont have the time to put in work to find new women. Im usually in the library studying or in the gym and then sleeping lol.

Maybe I should allocate some time just to have some fun and meet some new girls.

Lol @PureFilth, yeah I really cant drop her she knows physics like a fvcking pro and teaches be better than a tutor did so it wouldnt be wise to drop her. Lol you mean I should literally put my balls in her purse orrr ;)
 
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