"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feeling So Good Now MY Last Post

JustWuzzle

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Well, very great news has been happening to me lately. I really can't complain. I'm black so I will say I've been praying almost daily(we're somewhat spirtitual) and I think it works.In the next 5-10 months I plan on making big changes. I have no need to ask anymore questions as I am way more confident in myself and my being who I am. I now laugh at some of the things I think were tragedies in my young life. It took me almost a year of getting through this. I had two restraining orders but that doesn't matter. I have something great going but all the money in the world doesn't matter. If you make a million dollars and don't spend it on your goals your dreams was it not a waste? I wanna thank all the guys who helped me on my Journey. I had another account on here Chosen1.I wanna thank all of you who helped me I don't know your name but Solomon Pook and Kailex were big helps. I might stop in every once in a while but I won't ask any questions. I wanna thank my ex b!tch of a hippo wife. I really wanna thank my mom and sister. They were down for me when nobody else was. Thanks Sosuave peace.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Iceberg

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JustWuzzle said:
Well, very great news has been happening to me lately. I really can't complain. I'm black so I will say I've been praying almost daily(we're somewhat spirtitual) and I think it works.
Hah. Are WE? Because I'm not. I must have missed that at the last Black People Meeting.

But seriously, it's great to see a post from a guy who's progressing and happy, and ready to move forward. Most of these "My Last Post" threads are from a guy who's miserable and angry at the site for not giving the answers he wanted.

Congrats. I wish you all the best.
 

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Glad your happy my brother.
 

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You'll be back.
Maybe one day not anytime soon though put to much on your plate and you'll wind up sick.I just have to get a lot of things done that I put off for to long before I may comeback here. @ Iceberg you know what I mean about our denomination. A lot of people asked me do you pray I said no and doubted but this sexy ass sista at the library made me believe again. :rock: naw but until I get some ducks in a row I might not be back for a while.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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