"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Feeling Lost & Confused

Jerry Maguire

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I'm really happy with my love life at the moment, it's just the rest of it that sucks...

I just don't know what to do with myself, I'm failing University and I have no hobbies.
I'm going to stick at Uni and try and do better next semester, then apply for college this summer.
Just nothing really interests me.
Gaming, music, art, photography, fighting are all passing fancies, but I've never gotten good at any of them and I have never enjoyed them enough to be impassioned about them.

Could you guys suggest anything?
It would be really appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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diplomatic_lies

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Do something crazy, like trek across Antartica (or if you're too poor to afford the boat ride, try the northern regions of Canada, the Sahara, follow the Nile, etc - there's a wild place in every country except Luxembourg and Vatican City)
 

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Don't worry it could be alot worse. You could be MrConfidence.

I suggest travel also.

comic_relief
 

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Jerry Maguire said:
I'm really happy with my love life at the moment, it's just the rest of it that sucks...

I just don't know what to do with myself, I'm failing University and I have no hobbies.
I'm going to stick at Uni and try and do better next semester, then apply for college this summer.
Just nothing really interests me.
Gaming, music, art, photography, fighting are all passing fancies, but I've never gotten good at any of them and I have never enjoyed them enough to be impassioned about them.

Could you guys suggest anything?
It would be really appreciated.

First of all, I want you to start a list of things you are very thankful and grateful for. Like your parents and your house.

Then watch this and thesecret movie.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51rcN0l5lkw

And to know for a fact that God Loves you, and wants you to have Life abundant, to live like you were meant to live.
 
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