"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Feeling Lost & Confused

Jerry Maguire

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I'm really happy with my love life at the moment, it's just the rest of it that sucks...

I just don't know what to do with myself, I'm failing University and I have no hobbies.
I'm going to stick at Uni and try and do better next semester, then apply for college this summer.
Just nothing really interests me.
Gaming, music, art, photography, fighting are all passing fancies, but I've never gotten good at any of them and I have never enjoyed them enough to be impassioned about them.

Could you guys suggest anything?
It would be really appreciated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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diplomatic_lies

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Do something crazy, like trek across Antartica (or if you're too poor to afford the boat ride, try the northern regions of Canada, the Sahara, follow the Nile, etc - there's a wild place in every country except Luxembourg and Vatican City)
 

comic_relief

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Don't worry it could be alot worse. You could be MrConfidence.

I suggest travel also.

comic_relief
 

bbestar

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Jerry Maguire said:
I'm really happy with my love life at the moment, it's just the rest of it that sucks...

I just don't know what to do with myself, I'm failing University and I have no hobbies.
I'm going to stick at Uni and try and do better next semester, then apply for college this summer.
Just nothing really interests me.
Gaming, music, art, photography, fighting are all passing fancies, but I've never gotten good at any of them and I have never enjoyed them enough to be impassioned about them.

Could you guys suggest anything?
It would be really appreciated.

First of all, I want you to start a list of things you are very thankful and grateful for. Like your parents and your house.

Then watch this and thesecret movie.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51rcN0l5lkw

And to know for a fact that God Loves you, and wants you to have Life abundant, to live like you were meant to live.
 
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