That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Drewskie said:Probably a pro? Did you have to pay her? if not, even if she is a pro, technically, it was just a bj with a condom since pros are usually just as clean/dirty as any regular girl. If you paid her, no biggie man, I'm sure everyone has paid for sex some way or another. As long as you learn from mistakes, you're good.
Next time you're looking for 'compassion' from someone it would be a good idea to start a conversation, not just PM me a single line message : 'I got drunk last night and fooled around with a girl who was probably a prostitute.'SharinganUser said:Edit: Alle Gory, you are an idiot. Go out and get a life instead of trying to bait people into pointless internet fights. Keep wasting your time trolling, I don't care, you are on ignore.