I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Drewskie said:Probably a pro? Did you have to pay her? if not, even if she is a pro, technically, it was just a bj with a condom since pros are usually just as clean/dirty as any regular girl. If you paid her, no biggie man, I'm sure everyone has paid for sex some way or another. As long as you learn from mistakes, you're good.
Next time you're looking for 'compassion' from someone it would be a good idea to start a conversation, not just PM me a single line message : 'I got drunk last night and fooled around with a girl who was probably a prostitute.'SharinganUser said:Edit: Alle Gory, you are an idiot. Go out and get a life instead of trying to bait people into pointless internet fights. Keep wasting your time trolling, I don't care, you are on ignore.