Feeling like an AFC all over again...

[BPH]

Some of you may have read the issue I'm having with my best friend Josh and his ex...well let me tell you what happened today...

On the bus Josh came on and engaged me a bit, when I mentioned that I was talking to his ex he broke out laughing it up and went up for high fives with some of his friends nearby saying "been there done that right? can I get a high five?"

I went back to my seat after this and he came back to me and showed me pictures of 2 of the girls I'm talking to, his ex and a girl named Amanda, and showed me both nude and bra & panties pictures of both girls asking me if I wanted to keep any of them before he deleted them...

I don't know how I should feel about this...

I'm jealous that this guy has ****ed so many hot women while being such a clown

I don't know what to think of his ex that I'm talking to

I just don't know what to think, if I know anything about how I feel right now it's that I want to learn to be a DJ/PUA to the best of my ability and **** just as many HB9s or 10s in my time in high school as I can.

Currently his ex (Bree) is at going to a basketball game at school in an hour. I plan to go and at LEAST get a kiss, as I won't have any other chance to see her this weekend unless she can convince her dad to give her some space.

Please read and leave your thoughts

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Go beasting!
I might actually type something proper tomorrow.

 

[BPH]

Please do

 

[NorwegianDJ]

It seems to me as you're the problem. Your friend is taking advantage over the situation and your lack of respect. Stand up for yourself and become more social. Also, you should try to dilate your perspective on your world. If you keep keeping such a narrow focus on things like this, then it will become much harder to perform well, also because you get more outcome dependent.

Did you get a kiss? Or did you go for it yourself?
Get more girls. More plates. The only way to reach your goal is to take right action.

 

[BPH]

I don't understand what you mean by my friend is taking advantage of my lack of respect?

I have 2 or 3 girls on the side that I can game in the event that this girl doesn't work out. I even want to sarge tomorrow, I just don't know a good place to go where there would be girls, especially with the cold.

 

[Groovy]

If there is more background to this story post it.

It seems to me that you're basing your self esteem on how many girls you ****...


.... Don't do that.

It doesn't matter if you **** 1 girl, 15 or 100, the only thing that matters to your self esteem is how you think about yourself.

Like yourself. LOVE yourself. How can you be unhappy like this?

Sex isn't a need. You can survive without it can't you? Can you still be happy if hot girls don't give you attention?

Mission: KNOW you are cool. You only need one person to like you... You.
You have to know you're likable, even if others don't give you attention or approval.

If you want to go out to attract some females, great man, do it, you do your best. But DON'T:

Get angry

Get nervous

because of what girls think or may think about you.

And don't compare yourself to other people either.

Be nice to people! You may think that because you don't need others for anything you can ignore them and all. But no. If you're happy why not share it with everyone and try and make as much friends as possible? the more friends: The better.

Not just because it's cool, the social skills may be useful some time in your life.

Socialize with people. Know when to go away tho. Go in for the fun! Not for sex... That is Pook talking in some of my points.

Also be confident, don't forget that.

Even if you're not that bad personally, may this post be to all of you who need it... Peace. :moon:

 

[flirtystudmuffin37]

grow some balls playa

 

[Alchemystic]

I am going to make a high school guide, the best one you'll ever encounter.
This is going to beat out all the other AMOG's in your school.

But for starters, you have to read the Book of POOK.
My threads and the Mystery Method.
Do not forget to read Gun Witch by Allen Gun Reyes.
John Alexanders Alpha Male is also an excellent book.
Also read the Mystery Method because it contains the concept of social proofing and in High School, it is all about the social circle game and social proofing.
Social proofing use in bars can be use inside the classroom as well.
But that will be entirely different topic which will be posted in an entirely different post.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I am going to make a high school guide, the best one you'll ever encounter.
This is going to beat out all the other AMOG's in your school.

But for starters, you have to read the Book of POOK.
My threads and the Mystery Method.
Do not forget to read Gun Witch by Allen Gun Reyes.
John Alexanders Alpha Male is also an excellent book.
Also read the Mystery Method because it contains the concept of social proofing and in High School, it is all about the social circle game and social proofing.
Social proofing use in bars can be use inside the classroom as well.
But that will be entirely different topic which will be posted in an entirely different post.

Alright, I'm waiting for this. Not that I wont be able to spot bad advice, but what makes your information reliable? Social proof and reputation is a biggie in HS. However in bars? That's just a version of situational confidence man, not the real thing.

 

[BPH]

Well the Book of Pook is some PDF file I can't download, and I haven't really delved into the others you speak of Alechemystic