feeling hurt don't know why

[JustWuzzle]

I just want to know when it should be over with an ex. My ex an I keep having sex. Then she calls a girl I was kind of seeing and told her. I couldn't understand why she would do this. I leave any guy she talks to alone. I told the other girl the truth. I felt really bad about it. She told me to lose her #. I was ****ty. We weren't in a realtionship. She said she wanted to be friends. Then tells me to get lost. I was also very ****ty with my x. She said she didn't want other girls around my boy. The other girl also said I proved her right when she stopped acting interested. She texted once in awhile. I'm just really upset you can't really be friends with q girl their not honest.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You need to man up. You remind me of me when I kept making threads about my girlfriend. She isn't quality and you need to remember this no matter what. You need to be the man in the relationship and you need to feel like one. If you don't then you need to remove yourself from the relationship immedietly. It is kinda sad to see a guy as old as yourself deal with some sh*t like this. I had to deal with bs like this earlier this year and when I was 19 but I'm glad I'm taking one for the team so I can learn from my mistakes and make sure it will not happen again as I get older.

Quit having sex with your wife and I could have sworn you were going to go No Contact. You know what you need to do. Think with your brain not your pants.

 

[JustWuzzle]

I'm a little behind an retared with realationships. I met my ex wife when I was 21. I tried to go no contact but it's hard with a kid. It's even harder when my mom(she doesn't likeher) keeps mentioning her and my boy for no reason.This other girl was more quality she wasn't the best looking but she was smart. She just wasn't intrested. As for manning up I just need to stick with my plan an go to Army. I need to invest my heart and soul into something other than a family. I tried that it didn't work.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You sound pathetic man. Use the Right Side Of Your Brain!

Go out and meet new girls. I'm pretty sure that'll make you feel better. To the people reading this thread: This is why you don't have children unless you know that you will spend the rest of your life with her. I was almost unfurtunate enough to have a kid and I had sex with my Girlfriend for over a year with no condoms or birth control. I even busted in her ALOT. After the first 2 months I figured out that she can't have kids because of an abortion she got before me. If she could have kids though I probably would have one and life would suck.

 

[JustWuzzle]

You sound pathetic man. Use the Right Side Of Your Brain!

Go out and meet new girls. I'm pretty sure that'll make you feel better. To the people reading this thread: This is why you don't have children unless you know that you will spend the rest of your life with her. I was almost unfurtunate enough to have a kid and I had sex with my Girlfriend for over a year with no condoms or birth control. I even busted in her ALOT. After the first 2 months I figured out that she can't have kids because of an abortion she got before me. If she could have kids though I probably would have one and life would suck.

Don't have kids it sucks. I left him with his "mother" last night he said take me take me dada. I never saw him cry like like that before. I really just need friends it's hard when you don't go to school and your job in inpersonal. My ex can have no more kids I'm sure cause my son has Spina Bifida. Not only do I need to get friends but I need to put my heart and soul into something constructive. I would like to put my soul into law enforcement and sports. Yeah I do sound pathethic don't I? I just need a way to control the way I feel.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I still consider myself an AFC, I know what to do though to get out of this AFC shell but I somehow don't always follow though. I've been living with my GF now for 5 months. These 5 months have been the worst months in my life and I can even feel that my confidence took a big hit. The only reason I have not broken up with her and dump her is the face that she is moving out of our apartment next month to go to a different school.

You want to know how AFC I am? I haven't had sex since January and she says she just doesn't want sex. I swear to God that I have been horny every f ucking day since then. As a result of this I'm feeling depressed but I know this is my fault. Before I met this girl I was the most confident guy you could meet. Now I basically regressed to a loner. When she moves out it will be the best day of my life and the next and greatest chapter of my life.

Keep your heads up man. Things could be worse.

 

[JustWuzzle]

I still consider myself an AFC, I know what to do though to get out of this AFC shell but I somehow don't always follow though. I've been living with my GF now for 5 months. These 5 months have been the worst months in my life and I can even feel that my confidence took a big hit. The only reason I have not broken up with her and dump her is the face that she is moving out of our apartment next month to go to a different school.

You want to know how AFC I am? I haven't had sex since January and she says she just doesn't want sex. I swear to God that I have been horny every f ucking day since then. As a result of this I'm feeling depressed but I know this is my fault. Before I met this girl I was the most confident guy you could meet. Now I basically regressed to a loner. When she moves out it will be the best day of my life and the next and greatest chapter of my life.

Keep your heads up man. Things could be worse.

Wow, now I feel bad for you same to you I just read Black Dragon.A good post, I was the same way. I was happier single I need to practice what I know and feel. Good luck good bless man no complaining action.

 

[LoneWolf]

me too. was much happier single. seems like when we meet girls it removes all the good stuff in us :S

 

[JustWuzzle]

me too. was much happier single. seems like when we meet girls it removes all the good stuff in us :S

I need to practice No more mr nice guy rules. Funny thing is after truly deciding to go NC. My ex texts me so many times in a row. I haven't responded I'll read NMNG again. Helped to kill the "niceness" in me.