"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Feeling great

RedZone

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Yesterday, I texted a girl I worked with asking her to grab drinks when she gets back into town. Long story short, she never responded and when she does according to a friend it will be a no.

With all of this, I have never felt better. My whole life I have always been afraid to go after what I wanted. This caused me to miss out on so many opportunities. Now I realized I had no reason to fear anything. The worst thing that can happen is a no response or a no. For me as long as I don't have regrets I win.

Like Thomas Edison, "I didn't fail. I just found out 10000 ways it won't work."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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teddy

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What I'm learning is that 1. action trumps inaction every time and 2. most people choose inaction (and therefore dream about it) because they don't want to know the truth. Take action, know the result, and base your decisions off of reality, not what you want/wish/think it to be.
 

RedZone

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Yea I know from experience inaction sucks. I rather fail 2000 times in a row because at least you tried and really that's all you or anybody else could expect.
 
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