"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Feeling down...

frank17

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Hi everyone,
I'm feeling kinda ****ty right now.. everyday I feel that my self-confidence gets lower and lower, because there is this girl that I like in school. She is very attractive so i feel that i will never have a chance with her. I mean I talk to her almost everyday, because we eat lunch together, but just like friends. I keep reading articles on this page, and reading the newsletter. After I'm done reading it I feel all boost up, but then the next day.. I feel like sh1t again.

I've tried to change... going to parties, got into a sport ( swimming ), getting more friends and everything.. and I have change alot.. but the problem with the chick is that makes me feel down. I'm not very attractive, buff, or rich. Thats why I think i wont have a chance with her.
I will leave myspace profile if u want to look at it.. and comment about what I can do about confidence with this girl.
http://www.myspace.com/toca_mela

p.s : Sorry for the grammar ( English is not my first language)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AC/DC

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Hey didn't Frank Gore go to your school, the 49ers running back?
 

frank17

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Yes, he did... His coach still the same coach in school as well. However, I'm not a big fan of football.
 
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WTF no offence but ur website is pretty ***. You should start off by changing ur back ground to something more manly. Add some back ground music and change ur general info to something cool like playing football instead of science and ****. You look fine in the picture so just go for it.
 
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