"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Feeling down from a rude phone call

bud_2005

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I had a house with 3 other roommates. One of the roommates is the girlfriend of my other roommate "john". This was a old house built in like the 50's and the rent was $1100. I have bad allergies and there was mold in the house and I was sick most of the time i was there. Plus I was developing depression. We are halfways into our year long lease and we just had another girl move in which was a friends of "john".Eventually I become suicidal stayed at the phsyiatric hospital for a week an I decided I needed a change and moved out and got into a nice newer one bedroom house. I thought it was great timing because they just had another person move in. Well than that girl just up and left one day and never payed any rent or bills. Last night I got two voicemails when I was sleeping from "john" and his girlfriend who were drunk telling me how I screwed them over and how I was such a douchebag and that I should slit my wrist and kill myself and that they are never going to pay me the money they owe me ($150).

My happiness was at stake and I just needed to move out. They were deadbeat roommates who smoke weed all the time but never had money to pay me back. Should I be feeling depressed over this? I want to get back at them somehow.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It may be the case that you deserved a bit of rudeness.

Did you have a lease? Did you leave without formally canceling the lease with a landlord? You're lucky they're making prank calls instead of suing you.

Might want to record that call, though. If they do sue you, you have them on tape talking about the money they owe you that they aren't paying back. That should get a laugh out of a judge.
 

bud_2005

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Yes I was on the lease but I signed a release form with the landlord and gave them my key.
 

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they just had another person move in. Well than that girl just up and left one day and never payed any rent or bills.

Like that is your fault? If they accept another tenant in your place, then you are out of there. What the new tenant does has nothing to do with you.
 

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the best revenge is living well.

these people are toxic. cut all contact, change your phone number and make unlisted if required.

you did the right thing. now just move on and forget they ever existed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just let it go. you made the right decision by getting out of there. I would consider that mess worth losing $150
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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all i know is... their death is the only option. plain and simple.

KIDDING... KIDDING!!! it wasn't as subtle as i thought it'd be.
 

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bud_2005 said:
My happiness was at stake and I just needed to move out. They were deadbeat roommates who smoke weed all the time but never had money to pay me back. Should I be feeling depressed over this? I want to get back at them somehow.
Well hell, just shoot them.
 

bud_2005

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They pretty much never lock the house so what I could do is drive by and see if there cars are there and poison there snake. Or I coud leave an anynomous tip for the police that they have weed and paraphanilia in there room.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you kidding me? You're down about some jackass who left a rude drunk message on your machine? He didn't even have the balls to talk to you sober or in person? Don't let tools like this bring you down.. be a bigger person and just erase them from your life.
 
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The real issue here is your mental health - suicidal thoughts?

If a phone call and 150 dollars gets you down then I see why you may suffer a breakdown on more major issues in your life.
 

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I imagine if they wanted you to pay rent it was more than $150. You got a release from your landlord, than you're fine. Definitely record their calls if they ever call back. The whole "go kill yourself" probably wouldn't play out well in a court situation.
 
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