i had set goals to improve my life like in terms of my grades my depression and confidence and i accomplished them but i dont feel happy i feel like im missing something and i dont know what it is i can't enjoy anything because this just has me down has any one ever gone through this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
feeling down after accomplishements
- Thread starter wiseman
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FratAndDiddy
Senior Don Juan
i think you need to post some more details about your depression before we can help you
ignore this one
in my depression i would always be sad thinking of that one girl that messes us up in some way and my grades in college that dropped because of stupid choices i made and i would always be down so i set this goals to get out of it, it works and know is like what now?
in my depression i would always be sad thinking of that one girl that messes us up in some way and my grades in college that dropped because of stupid choices i made and i would always be down so i set this goals to get out of it, it works and know is like what now?
same one as bottom somehow got duplicated
in my depression i would always be sad thinking of that one girl that messes us up in some way and my grades in college that dropped because of stupid choices i made and i would always be down so i set this goals to get out of it, it works and know is like what now? and im kinda of unorganized on what to do with my life?for example like i dont know what to do on my spare time i'm behind in my college credits really don't go out anymore feeling down i just need something to spark me up again but the ? is what?
has anyone ever gone through this or can provide me with some helpful advice?
p.s how does one apply himslef on his true goals?
in my depression i would always be sad thinking of that one girl that messes us up in some way and my grades in college that dropped because of stupid choices i made and i would always be down so i set this goals to get out of it, it works and know is like what now? and im kinda of unorganized on what to do with my life?for example like i dont know what to do on my spare time i'm behind in my college credits really don't go out anymore feeling down i just need something to spark me up again but the ? is what?
has anyone ever gone through this or can provide me with some helpful advice?
p.s how does one apply himslef on his true goals?
in my depression i would always be sad thinking of that one girl that messes us up in some way and my grades in college that dropped because of stupid choices i made and i would always be down so i set this goals to get out of it, it works and know is like what now? and im kinda of unorganized on what to do with my life?for example like i dont know what to do on my spare time i'm behind in my college credits really don't go out anymore feeling down i just need something to spark me up again but the ? is what?
has anyone ever gone through this or can provide me with some helpful advice?
p.s how does one apply himslef on his true goals?
has anyone ever gone through this or can provide me with some helpful advice?
p.s how does one apply himslef on his true goals?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.