Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Feeling closed minded lately

JohnChops

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So lately I've been feeling really restricted and closed off in my mind, especially when talking with women. For example the only topic I can come up with is about classes in college (how lame). I used to be able to be so opened minded and easily flow with women but I've seem to have taken a step backwards. Anyone have any ideas on how to get back to that open mindedness?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jglide123

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Perhaps you need to focus on other things, and you' ll naturally have other things to talk about when you approach women....
 

Mike32ct

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Just open with something "lame" like about classes or whatever and let the conversation naturally lead to other more interesting stuff. Or steer the conversation towards something more interesting.

My best conversations started out with the most boring opening topic.
 
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